Is my long distance boyfriend just busy or losing interest?

[00dreamer00]

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13 d

Before meeting in person, my long-distance boyfriend (f25 m49) was incredibly playful while chatting. When we finally met, he was actually very serious and different from his online personality. He asked deep questions about marriage. He said he sees future with me while holding my hand. He sounds sincere.

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13 d

Since returning to his country, he resigned from his job and focused on his businesses, trading, so he can travel again later in the year. He would support me financially every month, he gives anything quickly with no hesitation.

[Calyptomaniac]

That's the great thing about long distant relationships. You have no idea what he's doing, ever. He could have three others, a real life one, a job that's totally different than the one he says he does and no clue what he's doing or who he is talking to 24/7. You just get to believe whatever he tells you.

Sorry, but these things are silly, for this reason and a bunch of others. To answer your question though, we can't possibly know the answer. Only he does.

[Nikki1989]

An LDR is not a real relationship. This guy could have three or four relationships going at the same time, and you wouldn't know. Expect very little if you want to persist in this nonsense.

[bowenw]

It sounds like he is now more interested in growing his business that a relationship. If he is very busy with it in the growing stages, he will likely be even more busy with it when it grows.

[00dreamer00]

Amazing advice. Thank you

[bowenw]

I followed you.

[00dreamer00]

@bowenw I followed you back

[bowenw]

Thank you for the MHO. 😊

[Alex-Snow]

I think the nature of a LDR is challenging. Do you two do any video sex while watching each other? How often do you two get together IRL for sex and companionship?

[DishLady]

Long distance very very VERY rarely works, so it doesn't matter whether he's busy or losing interest or both.

[Evsisa]

Losing interest and/or cheating.

[FrodoSkywalker007]

Without details it's hard to know

[kinks1951]

Long distance is difficult

[Mariogirl09]

Losing interest

[MasterKS]

second option.

[dudeinohio]

I answered this in your duplicate question