Is this girl unfairly calling me a perv or am I missing red flags?

[Telekinetic-Potato]

So I've been helping this girl out. She's in a bad situation. Got her a job, been getting her out of the house, introducing her to a better friend group. I mean, she's about to lose her apartment. And now she has a job.

We've been flirting with eachother. And some of that flirting has lead to intimate but not necessarily sexual experiences.

But she invites me over... Sometimes just to have someone to sleep next to, she's kissed me and bitten my neck. Playfully, not passionately 😂

But when were around other people, I couldn't help but feel she's treating me like some kind of creep.

After that, she's been hanging out with me more. She talked to me about some trauma and kinda hinting that she wanted to explore a relationship.

I told her that I want her to know as attracted as I am to her, I would be really upset if she thought she had to do anything for my help. That I'd help her either way, I've been in her position, I lived out of a car, I don't need anything sexual in return.

The friends I introduced her to told me she said I was pushy... Which I definitely can be a little pushy, and that I'm a perv... Which I for sure am a bit of a perv... But I don't feel like I did anything that would warrent accusations like this.

One part of me feels like I can understand why she would want to talk to my friends and get their opinion about the situation and another part of me wants to stop entertaining her flirting no matter what she says.

I'd just really like to hear what other people think. I'm still gonna help her till she can make rent this month and she's on boarded... just in case. I don't want to punish someone just because I'm an asshole lol. Could use probably a woman's perspective.

[OneViewpoint]

Congratulations! You have found yourself a professional victim. And you let your horniness get you into a perfectly compromised situation. She can now manipulate you then step back and claim inappropriate behavior. Enjoy your ride on the roller coaster.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

Ehhh, I don't know about compromised. Luckily, I have enough credit with people that I stepped off before the car got to the top.

[Kvass]

These kinds of people are unstable, don't know what they want and create victim stories when they can't take responsibilities. Go help a homeless dude instead of her, at least he won't create drama in return

[Telekinetic-Potato]

You're right. I've been keeping her at arms length. And my friends went up to me and told me some interesting things. Unstable is the perfect word.

[AngryCarl3]

Just stop simping dude.

[_Jenny_]

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