Some people react to grief differently. It also depends on the closeness of the person who died. I didn't cry or turn into a blubbering mess when I lost an aunt, uncle, grandpa or soldier. Death happens.
I felt guilty for not being able to feel incredibly hurt and sad or unable to cry. Don't jump to conclusions and judge just because she didn't fit your mold of what one should act like when someone dies
Either she didn't want to talk about it, or she just wasn't close to her grandma. Just because someone is a relative doesn't mean they are close. It's possible they never even met before. Or maybe they barely even knew each other. That would basically make them almost complete strangers.
If they were actually close, I'd be surprised if she really didn't care that her grandmother died.
You can't tell from a text. People grieve differently. I grieve alone and have been perceived as "insensitive" as a result of not puting my emotions on display. There's also a possibility that the reality hasn't set in yet or she's in an angry stage of making sense of the loss.
Depends on her relationship with said grandmother. Not all of them are sweet and innocent. Death is almost always a shock and she supported other relatives if bit ole grandma was a demon thats probably why she said that. Ask her how her relationship was with her
