Dear girls, would you date a guy who isn’t very confident?

[funnyguy11]

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Not sure i would. I wouldn't want to have to make all the decisions for us to get things done. I'd rather it be equal and we come to a decision together instead of him just deferring to me.

If you are struggling with confidence then you will need to ask yourself why. What specifially is keeping you trapped behind anxiety walls? Is it looks, personality, lack of experience, or something else? Maybe it's a combination of all of them and you will have to really think of ways to improve yourself.

In the end, you will have to build that confidence in order to attract women. Not saying there aren't women who like having control of course, but i can't imagine it's easy to find them if you aren't trying to get out there.

[Factual_person]

No one said you have to make all the decisions

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

If he has no confidence in himself, chances are extremely high that he wouldn't be making decisions

[Factual_person]

The guy probably meant a guy who has no confidence approaching women

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

No one said that he meant approaching women.

[Masie]

I don't currently date and don't plan to anytime soon. Just never found it to be a priority or enticing enough to do.

I probably wouldn't date someone with a complete lack of confidence because I don't want to be constantly propping them up.

I also don't want someone that is overconfident with themselves. That isn't attractive to me either. Somewhere in the middle would be ideal.

[lilBigPotato]

If his insecurities are visible all the time probably not.

[Nikki1989]

I have been married since 2010, but no, I probably wouldn't.

[scott04sa22]

women values emotional safeties from us.