I'm 30 and a 21 year old woman likes me, is that too big of a gap?

[Anonymous]

I'm not even sure why she likes an older guy like me, she just does.

[HollyK21]

That’s really for you to decide. If you feel as though you can’t proceed without getting the age gap approved by the masses, or worrying what others think, then that may always be in the back of your mind. So maybe it’s not for you.

[Calyptomaniac]

It obviously doesn't bother her. I think a majority of women don't really care about age too much. You have to decide if it bothers you. You might be at different places in life which is a possible obstacle.

[MasterKS]

@Calyptomaniac I agree!

[Asker]

Well admittly, I do like her back

[Anonymous]

No. If your single and she's hot go for it. I was 30 and my wife was 16 when I married her.

[Asker]

Interesting, do you know why females are drawn to older guys?

[Opinion Owner]

Women choose men for qualities they view as strong.

[scott04sa22]

If you feel the chemistry, talk to her but lower your fears on the age gap and You should have the tools to do it.

[Alex-Snow]

Are you both single? If she is mature enough for her age and you both like each other maybe start out slow and see how it goes.

[Asker]

Yes, we're both single and I like her as well.

[Alex-Snow]

Go for it a nd maybe ask her out and see how it goes.

[Anonymous]

No. The gap may present some challenges as you may be different places in life though.

[Nikki1989]

For most people, not at all.

[kinks1951]

I can work, give it a try

[kinks1951]

Sorry, it can work

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Nope.