How do you get over the pain and hurt of a girl not liking you?

[Anonymous]

Normally you can say just move on.
But this girl. We were so compatible on paper, chemistry was on fire and she was very very beautiful. She expressed interest in getting married to me.

Then we argue for a couple weeks and she gets this bad feeling, said I didn’t make her feel special. She spoke for like 1.5 hours about why she didn’t want to be with me.

It hurts as I loved her and thought she would never leave me as I was good to her and I am very blessed. Obviously I will try and improve myself and move on. But damn the hurt of this cuts deep as it was so sudden going from hot to cold.

We were only together for 4 months but used to meet each other so much.

She probably doesn’t care about me

She still probably cares about me despite not wanting to be with me

[Anonymous]

You have to try to stop thinking about her. Keep busy with other things. You will never be able to move on as long as you A) don’t accept it is over for sure and there is no getting back together no matter what you do. B) Accept that she actually wasn’t the one for you, the one for you will not leave. C) Stop obsessing over the situation and keep your mind busy with other things. If you have access to contact her then block it. Get rid of her number and block her on social media so you can’t be tempted to check up on her or message. If you have pictures delete them or hide them somewhere so you don’t see them. Therapy could be a good thing for you too.

[HollyK21]

Great advice, too bad it’s falling upon deaf ears. He will be back 5 more times next week.

[HollyK21]

You certainly won’t get over it by spam posting every week.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

In life I always say if you never try you will never know. As for the heart the heart wants wast the heart wants & sometimes the heart can’t always have what it truly desires & sometimes hearts do get broken. As for arguing you screwed up & as for you it’s time for you to face the sunshine & let the shadow cast behind you. Lesson leaned & now it’s time for you to put your big boy boxers on, man up & move forward with your life.

[Anonymous]

By realizing 90% of the women ain't going to like you. That's not YOU! That's just being a guy in general. Don't take it personal. A woman and whether she likes you or not follows no discernable logical pattern. It's whatever the goblins in her head tell her. Once you grow to understand this you'll stop caring.

[Abbycado]

Dude, get over it. You just keep obsessing about this and spamming these posts. Ffs.

@Agape93

[Agape93]

People like this need to get locked in a septic tank

[Abbycado]

This and the Thailand crap.

[Anonymous]

It's very difficult, it can take years before you stop thinking about her... I know from my personal experience (all of my loves were unrequited).

[imemma12]

liking has to work both ways

[Anonymous]

How she looks