How do I get over a girl?

[MacMan156]

It is just tough, after all that we have been through for all these years, how does she just break up with me and change to a different persons. what happened to all those sweet things that she say, how can they be no longer true, what happened to forever? how does she just change to a different person overnight

[Truth0225]

So I’m gonna say this, women have that nature. They say things and then change it. And I get that you put everything u had into it and really believed it was forever but the truth is that if she was able to let you go that easy, she wasn’t the one for you. It’s happened to all of us man and it’s not easy, but next time don’t let your guard down and be disappointed later. Just focus on yourself and make yourself better and you’ll find someone else but this time you’ll know how to play it smarter.

[MacMan156]

yeah, you're right they tend to change things after saying it, which is also what I am counting on so that she might change her mind again and come back? but yeah I guess she can no longer stay in a relationship, she has always been complaining on how relationship restricts her freedom and so on. so yeah guess nothing much can be done now

[Truth0225]

Don’t keep up the hope that she will come back. Just show her that you’re not gonna sit around and be depressed but instead you improved yourself and now ur a better man. Stick it to her. And frankly I don’t see why you’d even take her back after that because this means she would do the same again and everything she said to u she didn’t mean

[MacMan156]

Yeah I've thought about that too, I guess I know if I ever do that there's no turning back, and I'm just hoping there's a way back to how things were. But yeah, it's been some time and it seems like she's made up her mind. You're right

[Truth0225]

Unfortunately you can’t live in the past. You have to move forward and accept the fact that she is not who you thought she was

[MacMan156]

you're right, i just wanna try until my last try that I can before i give up, so yeah probably soon

[Static_In_The_Attic]

In life the only way to move is forward & forward is the way to go.

[Anonymous]

Get a new one, and the other one will vanish.

[MacMan156]

well, hopefully i can do that soon

[Opinion Owner]

When that bronco bucks you off, you have to get back on. The bronco must never win.

[Anonymous]

Focus on finding yourself a new love interest and avoid the ex at all costs.

[MacMan156]

that is just so tough man, it is hard to let go and find a new love, after we have been through ups and downs. it is gone just like that

[Opinion Owner]

I hear you.