How can I get over with a girl?

[Anonymous]

Hey everyone, I like a girl and she likes me as well. But I know I will never get a chance to meet her in real life because we live thousand miles away and I really can't afford going anywhere.

I'm just confused about what I should do. Like I really like her and have never talked to anyone better in my life. She is humble, kind and what not, but the only problem is that I can't meet her. I can't be in a relationship like this.

It's just so sad. I hope we would have never talked so that I couldn't have developed so much connection with her.

Please someone help me.

[TommyMountainFigure]

If you feel that strongly about someone, then a thousand miles is nothing.

Could you afford to pay half the fare? If so then give her your half and see if she can afford half too and then you go to her or she comes to you.
If I cared that much about someone and couldn't afford it I would take out a loan if it meant years paying it back...
How much do you really care about her?

[Asker]

I care about her a lot. Like she is very sweet. But I'm a student from relatively lower income country. We can't afford that at all. Plus as I said I'm a student I have to spend money on myself so it's very hard to save that kind of money.

[TommyMountainFigure]

You won't be a student forever. How long is your course.

[Asker]

I'll be studying for more 4-5 years.

[TommyMountainFigure]

And then what? You'll be earning money anywhere in the world?

[Asker]

Yeah, I guess then I would have good money.

[TommyMountainFigure]

4or 5 years isn't easy waiting for the one you love, but if you both truly love each other and know that in 4 years time you will be financially set for life? then you just have to accept meeting online is a way of life for now. Frankly though if you're about 20 ish you could have 50 years at least together.. Are you willing to look at the bigger picture?

[Asker]

Yeah

[TommyMountainFigure]

I hope I've eased your mind a bit

[Asker]

Thanks

[TommyMountainFigure]

You're welcome.