Yes, let me tell you a funny message I once got from a girl.
She said she liked a guy at school. Sometimes she helped out in the cafeteria, and one day he asked her for tea. He was downstairs and wanted her to prepare it and bring it down.
Then she literally messaged me asking, “How long should I wait before going downstairs so it doesn’t look like I’m in love with him?”
Just imagine being so paranoid about hiding your feelings that you even calculate the time difference. 😂
A lot of girls don’t show their feelings to a guy they’re really attracted to. Sometimes, when the guy they like tries to talk to them, they may act cold, distant, or even rude. In their minds, they’re trying to test how much effort the guy will put in for them.
Why do they do this? A lot of girls have low confidence, and many of them believe in myths like “women shouldn’t chase men” or “I shouldn’t look too easy.” They also think, “What if I get rejected?” or “What if people make fun of me?” So a lot of them basically get scared to death.
Girls will show attraction but not all of them. Some may like you say hide it. Might be for a reason like they are shy or something else. Most will show it back in one way or another.
I don't simply because I am not interested in dating currently. So I am not going to lead anyone on when I know there is nothing that will happen.
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Can I ask you a question? Do most girls just really really really want sex? Do they want it more than companionship from a male
Next thing. If a guy is really good at foreplay and exciting the girl but the first time they have sex it is a disaster, is that likely to ruin attraction. Let’s say the sex is a disaster because it is disconnected he isn’t enjoying it and keeps pulling out and then stops randomly. Just a disaster
I am kind of the wrong person to ask that. I don't date or have sex. So I am not sure how I would feel about that. Maybe he was nervous. Really hard to say. I think you want to ask that same things to people that post and have some experience in both areas.
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Yes, let me tell you a funny message I once got from a girl.
She said she liked a guy at school. Sometimes she helped out in the cafeteria, and one day he asked her for tea. He was downstairs and wanted her to prepare it and bring it down.
Then she literally messaged me asking, “How long should I wait before going downstairs so it doesn’t look like I’m in love with him?”
Just imagine being so paranoid about hiding your feelings that you even calculate the time difference. 😂
A lot of girls don’t show their feelings to a guy they’re really attracted to. Sometimes, when the guy they like tries to talk to them, they may act cold, distant, or even rude. In their minds, they’re trying to test how much effort the guy will put in for them.
Why do they do this? A lot of girls have low confidence, and many of them believe in myths like “women shouldn’t chase men” or “I shouldn’t look too easy.” They also think, “What if I get rejected?” or “What if people make fun of me?” So a lot of them basically get scared to death.
Girls will show attraction but not all of them. Some may like you say hide it. Might be for a reason like they are shy or something else. Most will show it back in one way or another.
I don't simply because I am not interested in dating currently. So I am not going to lead anyone on when I know there is nothing that will happen.
Can I ask you a question? Do most girls just really really really want sex? Do they want it more than companionship from a male
Oh definitey most want companionship over sex.
Next thing. If a guy is really good at foreplay and exciting the girl but the first time they have sex it is a disaster, is that likely to ruin attraction.
Let’s say the sex is a disaster because it is disconnected he isn’t enjoying it and keeps pulling out and then stops randomly. Just a disaster
I am kind of the wrong person to ask that. I don't date or have sex. So I am not sure how I would feel about that. Maybe he was nervous. Really hard to say. I think you want to ask that same things to people that post and have some experience in both areas.
It is usually unwise to tell a man you are attracted to him.
some might hide it but many many will show it openly
Shy girls hide it.
Dominant girls take the lead.
Like hide and go seek? No.
No but hide and don’t make it obvious
Can I ask you a question? Do most girls just really really really want sex? Do they want it more than companionship from a male
each girl is different
Some do, some don't