How do you keep hoping for love after constant rejection and heartbreak?

[Anonymous]

If it's academic I don't need endless hope, I can work and find hope through hard work and sacrifices.
But love it had crushed me repeatedly from the age of 14 as all my crushes rejected me, I kept changing myself thoughout my life.
From looks, getting braces, changing diets, changing body (it don't go well, got hip injury). Also changed to only listening mode for one.
How I have even lost hope to even think about the next one.
I want friendship before relationship, because I want to know what I might get into. As generally it never works, cause girls don't do that they have stronger boundaries for these things. And mostly I fall in love with the person for there friendship.

[Mariogirl09]

Im the same way. I truly want to fall in love with a friend. To me its better that way. You really get to know them that way. I say stop trying. Love finds you when you're not looking

[Anonymous]

I don't. Hope is for fools. I just live my life. If a woman's interested, it's on her to say something to me. If not i'll just keep living my life. Sorry, these games are just of no interest to me anymore.

[Anonymous]

It's not easy at all, I have that problem since I was in high-school.

[Opinion Owner]

Funny how this anonymous guy 45+ years old is mimicking me... no reply too.

[Nikki1989]

Rejection is just redirection. Have the inner strength to just move on.

[Abbycado]

“I want friendship before relationship”

There is your problem.

[exitseven]

Never give up.