Should I text my situationship after 4 weeks of no contact?

[Anonymous]

Guys what do I do when i miss my situationship its been 4 weeks since we're in no contact and he hasn't reached out me neither. We spoke for like almost 3 months. He kinda got distant from me after he said he was geniunely trying for me like going out w frnds, not speaking to me properly like a proper convo can i reach out? Today ! I dont want to boost his ego either plus im scared I'll get ghosted

[EmmaMary]

No he's moved on, just the same as you should.

You need to forget all this "situationship" nonsense, and do a bit more growing up before seeking out a proper relationship.

Life's too short as it is to waste time.

[molonski2]

Situationship, says it all.. who comes up with these BS names? What a joke ! He is a fling a backstop or a friends with benefits

Sadly he has ditched you on every measure.


Just leave it be..

[Nikki1989]

No!

You are obviously unprepared for any kind of relationship, even a situationship... whatever that is supposed to be.

[Asker]

Wdum? Like unprepared?

[beenherebefore]

Nah don't text. He's the one who distance himself and if he wanted to he would've texted first. Don't chase what's not for you.

[Asker]

Thankyou for telling me this means a lot I'm very much aware of this thing but i still think about him i still think about reconnecting and i feel like i can't move forward or try talking w new guys like there are two things in my head i deserve much better v/s i want to reconnect w him

[beenherebefore]

Know your worth. You're so young you're obviously going to get over this guy, this is not a forever situation. He doesn't deserve your attention.

[Alex-Snow]

I would move on. I think you can do better. Is he around your age? Is he new to dating/sex etc?

[Anonymous]

LMAO. No contact in 4 weeks and you don't THINK you're ghosted already? He's gone. Don't be an idiot.

[Anonymous]

If you feel you deserve way better and he’s low quality , why do u like him

[jahaims]

You shouldn't. Grow up

[Anonymous]

He’s not interested. Don’t bother.