I texted my ex after 37 days of no contact?

[Anonymous]

Today a few minutes ago I asked my ex how he was doing and he said “I’m alright. I hope you’re doing well”. And then I said: “I am, thank you.” And with an emoji he answered: “Good😊”. What does that mean by a guy’s vision? It was him who dumped me 2 and a half months ago. He is really alright when he says “I’m alright” ? And that smiley emoji? He’s been stalking me during no contact time but he denied it when I asked him today. After we said good night to each other and didn’t say anything anymore, he took 6 minutes online to leave our conversation.

[In_Trance]

why tf would you do this?

[SamFromFL]

It means you are not over him

[Asker]

I am not. But I wonder about him with his “I’m alright” answer and stuff

[SamFromFL]

No need to wonder. He rejected you, move on. I’m being blunt as he could be thinking a dozen things.

[Asker]

I won’t move on

[Asker]

I feel he also wants me but is being a stubborn and proud

[SamFromFL]

Then you are choosing to feel miserable. He doesn’t want you

[Asker]

That’s literally the easiest thing to do and say: “move on”. But you’re not analyzing it.

[SamFromFL]

Of course I analyzed it. This is my last comment because you are being stubborn. If a guy is into you, he doesn’t break up with you. This is real life, not some romantic comedy where a guy realizes how great a girl is after he loses her. The guy is stalking you because he wants to see you fail

[Asker]

It can be your last comment. Idc. A lot of guys actually regret losing a good girl. A lot of them do come back. Some are just not ready but regret they decision. So yeah, a lot of then realizes how great a girl is after she is gone. He is stalking our conversations as to see if I sent him a message. We ended the conversation friendly. So there is a chance. He knows me. Not you.