Do people just believe whatever women say?

[Anonymous]

I have noticed when women say her partner or ex was bad, they just believe everything even when she could be completely lying. People only have empathy for women.

It is only men that are questioned on their actions and that are forced to be accountable.

My ex turned out to be nasty, when we broke up she was horrible. Saying I didn’t make her feel special, I was untrustworthy and a player. I didn’t do anything wrong, I was consistent with her in the relationship, I even had to show her my phone like I’m not messaging other girls. It wasn’t enough. I feel like I was such a good boyfriend, caring and available emotionally.

Yet to all her friend and family likely think I am such a bad person, because people don’t question women. I’m literally the rarest catch out there in my opinion.

The mistake I made was falling for the wrong person. Looking at everything on paper think this should be so perfect.

People just believe anything women say

No I don’t not agree

[HollyK21]

You should really consider professional help. It’s not normal to be on here as often as you are griping about your ex. It’s even odder to fluctuate as you do between admiring and loving her vs dragging and blaming her. Accountability rarely ever takes place in these posts without absolving yourself of guilt somewhere in the context, and redirecting blame to her when it was actually you. Notice how she isn’t doing this nonsense and you’re the one repeatedly trying to find ways to reach back out to her before thinking “better” of it.

[Asker]

Nope I don’t want her back anymore but I am more just disappointed in myself for letting her get to me

[HollyK21]

Respectfully I feel like this is one of those situations where I’m like who are you trying to convince, me or yourself? I don’t believe that all of these conclusions you’ve drawn about her are anything other than your efforts to cope, dude. Because if she were to reach out right this moment, we both know you would respond. I don’t care how big or tough of a game you talk, you’re still head over heels and you’ve got to deal with that. Why can’t you just move on without slandering her in the process? Why can’t you find it within yourself to take any form of blame without trying to smear some of that onto her? It’s like you’re one of those entitled jerks who views themselves as perfect. No she wasn’t faultless but she has the full right to back out of a relationship she isn’t happy in, just as anyone does. She doesn’t owe you forever, and you do not have to agree with it. If the shoe were on the other foot and you were sick of being in a relationship, I’m sure you wouldn’t wait around for your partners stamp of approval either. This isn’t a freaking divorce so stop acting like you’ve gotten everything taken from you and nothing left. It makes it look like you’ve got Jack shit but tears and pity parties to offer as man.

[Nikki1989]

So you still haven't sought therapy for this obsession you have?

[DonFrank]

A female friend of mine dumped a load of stuff on me about her EX's. I believed it but here is the catch, some of what she said gave hints of what her problems where too.

In the moment I didn't care to start a confrontation. I'm sure lots of people just listen along to and those who may not accept what the person is saying must doesn't say anything.

[slatyb]

My ex-wife lied like Trump, whatever she thought would give her the most advantage at the moment.

[TonyMetal___1986]

Some yes, some no, personally i believe no one until i'm convinced about who's saying the truth!

[Anonymous]

Only till he f***s her.