Should you never trust what women say but only their actions?

[Anonymous]

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I feel a bit surprised to see so much mistrust to women on this website. (It’s the second question about mistrust to women I saw today)

This week I’ve seen two other questions asking whether women are evil or not…

But I guess you’ve had bad experiences towards women in your past, I am sorry if that’s the case and I would like to say that trust needs to be earned by anyone, whether a man or woman.

[Asker]

Thousands of guys will tell you that

[laurieluvsit]

Why would you ever say such a thing? ... lol

[Asker]

Women in a nutshell

[PatriceONeal]

That would be wise. I haven't gotten to the comments yet but I can easily assume the negative feedback from women.

[Ms_Facesitter]

This goes for everyone, not just us. If you're full of empty promises, I need your actions to speak for you. But it depends on the person too. Me, if I say I will do something, I will do it.

[Asker]

Women let me down all the time in the trust department

[Ms_Facesitter]

I've been let down too, I don't trust anyone just based on their words.

[Asker]

Humans suck

[Wavvygurl]

Not necessarily. I always say what I mean. I’m very blunt. But it never hurts to let actions speak for themselves!

[Asker]

The amount of women who say the same thing you do and it turns out to be the opposite

[Wavvygurl]

I said not necessarily because I don’t think it’s healthy never to trust what someone says. I believe in giving people the benefit of the doubt. If you say you’ll do something, I’ll believe you unless you show me otherwise. If someone says one thing and does another, then I agree with you. In that case, actions are what will redeem them.

[Asker]

Women dont realize how much easier dating would be if they were just straight up and honest with men

[Wavvygurl]

So I’m curious now. What experience is making you want to distrust what every single woman says?

[Asker]

The fact that every single girl I've ran into lies. They're never honest and even when i give them a chance to be straight up, they still lie. Their actions show different

[Wavvygurl]

Well, it sounds like you’re not surrounding yourself with the right women, handsome 😏

[Asker]

What is the right women?

[Espresso-Grande]

I believe trust needs to be earned. If someone's actions don't match with their words, then I'd believe their actions are who they really are

[Asker]

But why can't women just be honest and say what they really mean? I have patience but godamn

[Espresso-Grande]

Yeah they should. I put a wall up if a guy isn't open with me. I'm very open and day what I think and feel.

[Asker]

And now because of that, a girl possibly could be telling the truth but im on mu guard that i might sabotage things

[Espresso-Grande]

Totally get that. It's best to try to get to know a woman first and trust her based on your perception of her. Then trust until she gives you a reason not to. If she turns out to be a liar then that's a reflection of who she is, not you. It means your trust was misplaced. Don't build a protective wall around yourself or you will miss the opportunity of finding a honest, open and genuine woman

[Asker]

Right now i just dont want to play the game

[Espresso-Grande]

Understandable

[jennifer_bloom]

I would say you should definitely analysis a woman’s word because words reveal whether somebody is wise or foolish, righteous or wicked, obedient or disobedient to God.

[Blackcosmo]

Trust needs to be earned from "anyone" and not just women. "A person's" action speak louder then their words.

[laraWM]

I think it applies to everyone, only trust what people are doing or have done

[Asker]

Im not even mad that women never mean what they say. It's just depressing

[laraWM]

I think you were unlucky if you know only women that are lying all the time. Nice people too exist out there

[Asker]

I want to believe that. But at this point, im just tired of it

[laraWM]

I can understand that. Focus on nice people you meet, I mean guys or girls and see what happens

[Asker]

Im done

[nisnaia]

Nah I trust women. You have to take it by case. Same with men really.

[ChrisMike1919]

Womens are not all the same.

[Blackcupcake]

🤡🤡

[Asker]

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