Is it suss if a girl wants to be provided for, when she has a career?

[Anonymous]

Like entitled. Like let’s say you get into a relationship and oh for all the dates what if you get used? What if she’s just using you because it’s free entertainment?

It is a red flag

It isn’t a red flag

[Pretendingtobesweet]

If you make much more money then she would expect you to pay but if you don’t make more money than her and she expect you to provide when she is not spending any money then it’s definitely suss. She is just using you.

[4ngelic]

If a girl who has her own money & jobs wants you to bankroll her life, then she is for sure a red flag. Now if it's just pay some dates in the beginning, it doesn't mean anything negative

[Calyptomaniac]

It's a small risk but if you are that paranoid, maybe dating is a bad idea for you

[Asker]

Paying for her for a year just for her to end it. Sure only a few thousand. But at the same time, if she really liked you she would be happy paying 50/50

[Calyptomaniac]

And did you ever tell her your thoughts about it and have a discussion?

[Asker]

Yeah but anyway do you agree with me

[Calyptomaniac]

If you discussed it and told her how you felt then she should have compromised and if she didn't then you should know she isn't the type you want to be with and ended it there

[EmmaMary]

Personally I would consider that to be a definite Red Flag.

[HighValue]

If the woman wants the man to provide for her financially, she is a pr0$titute.

[Anonymous]

It is more suss you are asking this question.

[Anonymous]

What’s wrong with free entertainment? Aren’t you both supposed to be having fun on the date?

[Anonymous]

It means u aren’t man enough

[Asker]

Fuck off you bitches are users. Leeches

[Opinion Owner]

LOL , you are not a guy. That’s why u can’t provide. lol

[Asker]

You can’t get a guy to provide for you I bet you wish you could

[Opinion Owner]

Because he is not a guy , a wuss

[Anonymous]

pay your own way