Does it matter if the girl you like has a higher paying job/career?

[koko22]

Does a girl having a high career jobs like doctors, lawyers engineering spark an interest or intimidation in you... Especially if your job is just basic and regular?

[OfMiceandMen]

Not sure why it would. You are interested in the person, not their job or career. I don't fall for the whole status crap thing that some people believe.

Money is just a means by which you live and should have no bearing on who you should see. If the person has great morals that you value, that should be the real determining factor.

[FilmGuy93]

Maybe it's because I'm going to be a lawyer soon, myself, but the higher paying career only interests me in that it implies that the woman I'm talking to has a personality, drive and work ethic that allowed her to achieve more.

[LocoLuna]

It shouldn't. Some people let it get in the way. Their pride becomes unruly with jealousy. However I think if someone cares about a person they will overlook how much someone makes

[Rizwan_khan]

No it doesn't matter to me girl can superior then boys but the problem is when we make partner those kind of girls then they behave like they are everything and they can insult thier partner anytime anywhere and it will not show in starting but eventually girls will doing that to boys.

[MrCommodore]

It wouldn't bother me how much she earned, regardless of whether it's higher or lower pay than my job. I'm in a fairly good job, so I wouldn't really be bothered if a woman earned more than me, like I wouldn't feel inferior or anything.

[SawerBrown]

It wouldn't matter to me in fact if we were a long term relationship it would be good, as a marketing consultant I make pretty good money so she'd have to be making some very good money to make more then me.

[Tyrael]

No it doesn't matter to us, but it does matter to women.

Men will date a women who earns less than him. A woman is very unlikely to do that.

[exitseven]

My wife had a real career when we met and I was stuck in a crappy sales job. I never even thought about it.

[TheFlak38]

If this was a problem for men then at least half the female population would be unsuitable. More and more women outearn men every year.

[Anonymous]

Most Men don’t care about a female’s financial situation. WOMEN are the ones who act like it’s an issue and use it to attack a guy, shame a guy, etc.

they also often believe in “my money is mine, your money is mine” which causes issue.

[Anonymous]

No, it does not.

This feels like one of those things that people pretend is a big deal on the internet, but is not actually a problem IRL.

[Twalli]

Not at all. My mom always made more money than my dad, so a woman making more than her husband has never been a concern for me.

[Anonymous]

Not at all
I don't make much but I treat my clients well so a standard minimum wage would earn significantly more than I

[Jennz6]

Or a Navy Nurse 👩‍⚕️, no it shouldn’t matter

[Jerre]

I’m retired, so doesn’t bother me at all

[BrookeS]

No not really

[roy_ricky09]

Yes... Ofcourse

[In_Trance]

No, it doesn't

[Anonymous]

Nope.