Is it smart to do 50/50 even if you are rich?

[Anonymous]

Is it good to date a stunning girl and do 50/50? Guy earns a lot of money and from wealth.

It allows you to see their true colours and if they really like you that is proof, it won’t be an issue.

Assuming the girl earns decent money, isn’t struggling financially. Just doing normal dates, nothing fancy. You’re not married yet so no need to be a provider

It is smart

No I don’t agree

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1 mo

Pay for the first dates and the do 50/50

[RavVid]

I'd agree it is better to do fairly ordinary activities because the first date/dates are really to see if there is potential between you. Certainly if you start going out regularly, the primary objective is spending time with each other.

I play by ear mostly. If it is a local girl just meeting for coffee is fine. If I have invited a girl from the outer burbs it will be for a cafe meal and drinks. Outer burban girls love coming to the inner city so I have leverage and don't see any reason to give that up.

[Anonymous]

You can do 50-50 as the woman is wearing something to cover her face and body so you have no idea what she looks like, to make sure you love her for her not just her looks. Then when you’ve made really sure you live her for her inside and have gotten married you can se what she looks like. You see, you keep talking about stunning 10/10 women while wanting her to love you for you. Why would she love you you for you when you just want her for her looks and don’t even want to provide for her? Mwn like you are such hypocrites. Terrified of golddiggers and won’t provide for you woman, while at the same time you’re beauty diggers only wanting good looking women.

[Asker]

Give the women the world when she shows she will be there with you no matter what

[Masie]

I would do 50/50 for the same reason many women on this site point out. Then the guy can't expect that he is owed something after dinner or whatever. You both pay your way and go home.

The other good point I frequently pointed out is that if there is no second date then the guy can't say he was used, come on this site and cry about women using men. Simple as that.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't be so black and white about it. To answer your question. It'snless about it being 50/50 then her having the attitude/commitment of 50/50. Any good women WANTS to give generously to relationship. Sometimes a woman will not have the livihood to match a man's effort. But aa long as she giving what she's honestly able to, that's what's important.

In short it's the woman's character that matters.

[Screenwriter]

I don't think anybody ahs to pay for the first date. Make early dates simple and cost free. Coffee dates. Walk in the park dates where you're getting to know someone so there's little to no cost to either person.

[Nikki1989]

Dates can be free, and people obsessed with money tend to be undesirable regardless. Your first sentence here should be enough to turn most women off instantly.