Which is the most important for a guy to attract girls?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

ATTRACT, not keep. Because there is a big f***ing difference between the two.

Most women may like tall guys. But only about 50% of women have a hangup about this. And with the ones that do you could be the perfect man and she'll turn you down because you're not tall enough.

As far as muscles go, there used be this one G@Ger whose name you could describe with the adjective "Wow". I'd tell you her name, but that would be a member post and we can't do that here. But for example she looked rather man-ish. And she said she would only date MMA fighters. I'm sure there are a segment of women like this. But i assure you it's a small segment. Most women who are ATTRACTED to muscles are girls who have not matured into women yet. I'm not saying women don't appreciate muscles. But they view it more as "added value". A guy who works out shows his commitment to his health and well being.

Money makes every guy look better. You can look like G**D*** Buddy Hackett and a woman is going to notice you if you have money. But only gold diggers date men SOLELY for their money. Again like muscles money is added value. But women would rate it significantly higher than muscles. Study after study proves that money makes a man more attractive to a woman. Show a woman 2 pics of the same casually dressed man and label one "janitor", and the other one "doctor" or "lawyer", and she's going to pick the doctor or lawyer nearly every time.

Finally, good looks. This is such an "X" factor. Like men, girls have their universal traits they are attracted to when it comes to men. But when girls MATURE into women this really diverges a lot. And thank goodness for the propagation of the human species they do. Or a lot of men and women would ALWAYS be single. One could make the argument that that is a lot of what's wrong woth society of today. Is we've become so connected to social media that half of person worth is determined before you ever actually meet the person. Women hardly ever meet men anymore. And their selection process is determined so much by their "feelings". This is why PUA's are so good at what they do. They know exactly what to say to a woman to massage those feelings and get her to an intrigued state about him. Because when it comes right down to it, the single most important thing for a guy to attract a woman is CONFIDENCE.

Confidence! And when i say confidence i'm not talking about projection. Any fool can pretend to be confident. But most women are going to see a fool pretending to be confident. I'm talking about the kind of confidence that shows supreme belief in himself. I'm talking about confidence that is unshakeable. The kind of confidence that tells her he is worth knowing. Because he's interesting and going somewhere. Confidence alone WILL NOT keep a woman. But confidence will attract a woman long enough for him to get his foot in the door and ample time for him to present his case. You have to understand when are drawn to a man's confidence because she lacks so much of it. Even the "boss b****es" you see deep down are just scared little girls (b****es to be sure, don't feel sorry for them😆) but they are scared girls looking for a confident guy to make them feel safe. This is why these women typically make such poor choices. Generally these types of women have no clue about what true confidence is when it comes to a man.

MrOracle · Accepted Answer

1. Good Looks
2. Tall
3. Confidence
4. Money
5. Funny

Obviously there are exceptions, but this is the order of importance for the majority of women.

And ignore the woman who tell you that they pick men based on morals and values (or words to that effect) - that's total bullshit. They only care about those weeks or months into a relationship with a guy they choose based on characteristics from the numbered list, and the exceptions to this rule are very, very few.

Nikki1989 · Accepted Answer

Personality makes up for 90% of attraction. However, seeing as you didn't even think of including it as a poll option suggests you have little. Posting anonymously doesn't help either.

EmmaMary · Accepted Answer

How about. Appearance and Hygiene closely followed by Personality.

HarveyLaw · Answer

The amazing ability to keep her interested in yourself after the initial attraction and first steps... whatever the initial attraction was — good looks, his Lambo, his physique, good humor and wit, etc.

If you and she truly have some chemistry together, it is up to both of you to figure out if this can develop into more and deepen the relationship.

OneViewpoint · Answer

All of the above are a good start. But everything you listed is superficial stuff. It'll get you noticed. It won't make her like or respect you.

Ariesman81Nshiiit · Answer

None of the above. It's all about useful skills.

Anonymous · Answer

Good looks is a must , if you only have money , it’s going to make u feel used and it’s not going to be a beautiful relationship but a deal.

RareBreedOfMan · Answer

Treat her like a Lady.

Flower7 · Answer

Confidence.

DryGermanGuy · Answer

E ) Brains

Spencer10 · Answer

None of the above...

KostasKouvalis · Answer

Confidence

canamlusciouslad73 · Answer

C-A-I-S-H !!!

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