Is he really not ready for a serious relationship or just not with me?

[Anonymous]

He said he didn’t want a serious relationship because he has plans for his future, wants to focus on his career, and doesn’t have time for the kind of serious relationship I want. On the other hand, he follows dozens of girls on Instagram every single day. He also said that he likes but all this is pointless.

[WhitneySnow]

He wants to hook up and has no interest in a serious relationship with anyone, even if he does like you. The good news is that following dozens of girls on Instagram does not mean that any of them even give a fuck about him, let alone actually want to hook up with him.

[choco-latte]

Doesn’t matter, at the end it’s still the same thing. He’s just not ready to commit to you, so don’t waste more time and energy on it. Move on and find someone who’s wants the same things as you.

[Anonymous]

I don’t think this needs to be explained more. Just cause he’s following dozens of girls on IG doesn’t mean he wants a relationship. A lot of men follow women on social media platforms regardless of whether they’re in a committed relationship or single.

[Alex-Snow]

Following does not mean he wants a relationship with them. How old is he? Maybe he is starting out in a new job or career and wants to focus on that for the time being. are you dating him? Sexually involved with him?

[Asker]

No, we’ve only met twice, and we haven’t been physically intimate. He’s 28 years old, financially well off, and he graduated from medical school. He’s currently planning to complete his PhD.

[Alex-Snow]

Thanks for the update. I'm going into my senior year of college (taking a pre-med path) and hope to get into med school in a year or so. It will be a tough journey. I hope things work out with you and future dates.

[Asker]

It didn’t, I took a step back after he said that he doesn’t want a relationship with me, days after he deleted me from instagram. I asked why and he said I’m not into this thing anymore and it ended so why should we follow each-other on instagram.

[Alex-Snow]

Good plan... time to move on. U can do better

[Asker]

Yeah actually I didn’t like him a lot at the beginning but after he rejected me kinda I made myself obsessed with him, I stalk him a lot and think a lot, is just waisting my energy but there is nothing I can do

[Abbycado]

He told you as much. How is this even a question?

[Asker]

I was confused because when he ended things, he told me, “I like you a lot, but you want something serious, and I can’t give you that. I still have strong feelings for you, though.” I never really understood what he meant by that.

After everything, he has added me to his private Snapchat story around ten times, and I keep leaving it. I don’t understand his behavior. On the other hand, he never watches my Instagram stories, which makes it even more confusing.

[Abbycado]

You seem to place WAY too much emphasis on social media cues.

[Anonymous]

It seems Iike he isn't ready if he is following other girls on Instagram. Immature.

[RareBreedOfMan]

You want a commitment, but he doesn't could this sound like things?

[Pterodon]

Not with you