Is it normal to be turned on by much older women but feel ashamed in public?

[Anonymous]

I have felt awkward being seen publicly like I am on a date or with a woman if she is ten plus years older than me.. yet I keep talking to women who I know I shouldn’t be talking to or using time on

[Anonymous]

Nothing wrong w that. Everyone has different preferences. Are you looking to be in a relationship w an older woman or just something for fun? When I was about 25 I used to have an friends with benefits situation w an older lady. She was about 43. But I never got into a relationship w her. If you’re too concerned w what people think you’ll never really live your life. You’ll probably is out on a lot of opportunities as well in life.

[Asker]

and how did you meet this one?

[Opinion Owner]

I met her where I used to work. She was a nurse, I was working security at the time.

[Nikki1989]

You need therapy. There is nothing to be ashamed of.

[canamlusciouslad73]

Why would I be turned on by some old broad?

[Asker]

Like I wouldn’t throw myself at Sandra Bullock?

[canamlusciouslad73]

I wouldn't. Broad's as flat as most lads !!!

[slatyb]

Yes and no.

[Asker]

whattt

[slatyb]

Is it normal to be turned on? Yes
Is it normal to feel ashamed? I don't know how common it is, but there's no reason to be ashamed of sexual attraction