28F, I know maybe not as much as someone friendly but it still happens. There’s a lot of shy women that are taken, I’m told I’m attractive but considering my age & the fact I’ve never had a real relationship is just strange. I’m not the friendliest person, I get matches on the dating apps often but I feel like I had to go that route bc I’m never noticed in person. Well, I’m told guys look at me but they never do anything about it.. hate to sound self deprecating but the fact I’ve never been approached by a guy I’d actually want to date hurts my self esteem. It seems like my lack of relationship experience is just bad luck considering a lot of shy women are happily taken.
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It's important to remember that finding a partner and being approached by someone you're interested in can be a matter of luck and timing, as well as personal preferences and chemistry. It's possible that you may not have been approached by someone you're interested in yet, but that doesn't mean it won't happen in the future.
It's also important to consider factors such as your own comfort level with approaching others, and the types of social situations you find yourself in. If you tend to be more reserved or introverted, it may be helpful to seek out social situations where you feel more comfortable and confident, such as events or activities related to your interests.
Ultimately, it's important to prioritize your own well-being and happiness, and to approach dating with an open mind and heart. Remember that finding a partner takes time and patience, and that there is no one-size-fits-all approach to dating or relationships. Focus on developing your own interests and passions, and be open to meeting new people and exploring new opportunities.
Wo your title I agree with
UT you have to SHOW men it's okay to approach or pursue.. can you smile?
Nah they are boring asf...
I don't have that much time to waste on understand shy girls...