Why do older women feel embarrassed when you ask them out?

[Anonymous]

Hi there, Iv always loved an older woman in the past Iv asked a few out but I feel that an older woman feels embarrassed when a younger guy shows interest? Why is this happening?

[Anonymous]

I’m only 31 but when a guy under 25 tries anything with me I shoot him down lol. Not out of embarrassment but a lot of times they don’t really have their sh*t together or very immature. Being mature isn’t always having a job, car, etc, but emotions. Women mature faster than men by at least two years, so someone so much younger than me is likely not on the same page mentally.

[Asker]

I completely agree with you I have been told by a woman that iv got a mature head for my age Iv always been mature I don’t act like a child I have my life coming together the thing is that I only want to be with a older woman I love maturity Iv never wanted a younger woman who has not much life experience

[Opinion Owner]

And you know the right woman is out there. I know there can be a stigma around dating younger men, like for instance I have my reservations but for other older women there may very well be some embarrassment about dating younger guys. She has to be confident with herself and not care about outside opinions, especially if people stare (some people are so ruthless and don’t care if you seen them staring, which is very rude). But if you feel you find the right woman, keep showing her your personality, and that you’re proud of her and she shouldn’t feel ashamed or embarrassed, that’s how you’ll find and keep her

[Asker]

I so hope that the right woman is out there and she better be available ! I’m very passionate about my career and I have the right mindset and attitude any older woman would never be embarrassed about dating me you have made me feel better tonight with your words I does worry me about where my older lady is? I so hope I meet her someday?

[Opinion Owner]

Well to be fair at your age it shouldn’t be hard to find an older woman. I think in your 20s it’s harder, but you should have better luck now. Have you tried any paid dating apps? Or maybe speed dating?

[Asker]

Yes I so hope that I have better luck now when I was mid 20s every time I got shot down do you think that if I tried to shoot my shots on a certain older woman that said no when I was younger would change her mind?

[Opinion Owner]

It depends, do you still talk to them? Or have recently? Because if years have passed then I wouldn’t recommend it, that’s just too “out of the blue”.

[Asker]

There is a certain lady who changed my life Iv always had a mega crush on she was the one who took me massive question mark out of my head i didn’t know what to do for a career I fell completely in love with her and the career Iv just qualified as a hairdresser I miss her everyday

[Opinion Owner]

Oh congratulations that’s great! Why don’t you talk to her? Is she the one you’re hoping change her mind?

[Asker]

Thank you ! Well it’s a bit of a story but yes I’m hoping to change her mind this lady is my ex hairdresser I haven’t seen her for a few years

[menina]

I guess it's because they're surprised to see that a young man is interested in them. Or they're "afraid" of being in a relationship with a younger man.

[Asker]

Yes that’s what I thought too !

[menina]

I'm glad you agree.

[Asker]

Oh yeah totally agree

[menina]

👍🏽 👍🏽

[Anonymous]

Well it depends how much older your talking about. Typically women in their late 40s early 50s are going through menopause and thinks a younger guy who is in his late 20's early 30's can do better.

[Asker]

I’m a bit confused by can do better? What with?

[ferhunde]

I would feel flourished

[Asker]

That’s what I thought but I don’t know why an older woman would feel embarrassed?