How do you ask out an older woman?

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She's 36, I am 29.  I met her at common friend's house, we argued a bit at first but now are friendly... How can I ask her out, she's single now

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I’m sure someone will have an issue w this. But considering she’s almost 40, still single, I think you have better odds as she’s probably lonely. There’s a good chance she may feel as though she’s going to be alone for the rest of her life since it doesn’t sound as though marriage hasn’t happened for her. Maybe she didn’t want to get married. Happens sometimes. But most women want to get married, have a family. You looking for an actual relationship or just to have some fun. If it’s the latter of the two, may not be a good idea. Unless she wants that too of course.

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

Just ask her out , her age has nothing to do with how you feel about her , I date older girls’ and younger girls’ because I don’t hold age as a deciding factor , as long as she is legal age of consent , but age means absolute shit to me. What matters is the chemistry and connection and attraction her and I share together. If she says no to you , then at least you have an answer instead of no answer at all. If you are attracted to to her and you really like her , just ask her out and see what she says.

Chartreux · Accepted Answer

Just ask her nicely, don't get upset if she says no...  If I were single I wouldn't mind a polite 29 years old asking me out. Has she given you signs she's interested in you?

DishLady · Accepted Answer

Just ask her. She’s just another person. What’s the worst that can happen? She’ll either say YES or NO.

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

Getting those heartstrings tuned for a duet, huh? 😏 Asking out an older woman can jazz up your dating game, so here's my aim on Girls Ask Guys: helping hearts connect! Turn that friendly vibe into flirty fun. Suggest something light and easy, like coffee or a casual lunch. Make it clear you're interested in her specifically. Confidence and genuine interest? That's your power combo. Go on and sweep her off her feet, tiger! 🐅💘

molonski2 · Answer

You don't have to be worried as either way she is going to be complimented that a young toy boy wants her..
Did you get the number? Or how are you going to do this?
Along the lines of " Anne , I was rather stimulated by own discussion the other night , and I was hoping to take it further over dinner "
" I'm putting myself out there but I'd love your company " " How's Thursday ( or whatever ) evening for you " ..
" Great , I really look forward to it "
No mention of too much else , pretty susinct , and don't seem too excited when she says Yes , coz that's the answer you expect.

adventurous-1 · Answer

The same way you'd ask any other woman out. Her age doesn't make her inapproachable or hard to talk to, it just makes her older, my wife is 10 years older than me and we've been together for over thirty years even though our friend didn't thing it'd work due to the age difference. It all in how you interact and accept the other for who and what they are. Age is just a number that has some impact but not an end all condition for a great relationship. It only makes a difference if you allow it to.

satinpetals · Answer

Be yourself, be sincere and be genuine. Don’t try to be anyone else or say or do anything out of character for you. We can pickup on that stuff very easily. If someone likes you, you want them to like you for you, your true and whole self

Good luck!!

Keyboardkat · Answer

Older women are more mature and aren't into playing silly mind games like many younger girls are. You might do better with an older woman. If I were single I wouldn't screen out a woman because she's older!

DryGermanGuy · Answer

"Hey! I guess they were right - senior citizens, although slow and dangerous behind the wheel, can still serve a purpose!"  - Lloyd Christmas, Dumb and Dumber

dustybiker2 · Answer

Is 7 years really older at that age range? Just ask.

In_Trance · Answer

The fact that you don't know how to ask her out simply because of her age means you're not ready to ask her out at all

bowenw · Answer

Text her and ask her if she's like to grab coffee as a simple place to start.

Sevenpointfive · Answer

you catch her off guard and get real close up to her. your face touching the hairs on her cheek close!. then you say ask her when is that pussy available?

alice55 · Answer

like you would any other women, you act as if she's 80 XD

hahahmm · Answer

"AARP provides many exciting benefits. Let's go use your senior discount to get a meal and discuss more."

GoodEnoughThen · Answer

That's not much of an age difference at that age. I'm 80, and asked out a woman who is 100. She said no, but not because I was 20 years younger. ;)

slatyb · Answer

Like any other woman. Start a conversation. If she engages, then invite her to lunch, dinner, whatever.

Massageman · Answer

"Would you like to go- out for dinner/ to ball game/ play a round of mini-golf" etc. might be a good start. This is not rocket science.

Communicationisking · Answer

ask her if she would like to go out... its that simple

OneViewpoint · Answer

Tell her she looks great for a woman who just hit the wall. Then offer up a Starbucks date.

Joshydavid25 · Answer

She's only 7 years older, hardly a cougar to you or in a different generation.. Just ask like you would a woman closer to your age..

EzraIsShy76028 · Answer

I mean the same way you'd ask out any other woman? What other secret would there be? Lol.

ItsJill · Answer

Be a man and ask her out. At her age she doesn’t want a scaredy little boy.

andreasderjuengere · Answer

I feel amused about what you consider to be ''older''. Practically - ask her out the same way as if she was... ''younger''?

northerngal · Answer

It should not matter older or younger or same age... just ask her respectfully.

HungTexan · Answer

You ask her out the same way you’d ask a younger woman. Besides, she’s only 7 years older!

Crazzyyworld · Answer

older women want someone dominant and leading. you can say to her, bitch you be my bitch. now kneel down and give me a head bitch!

Anonymous · Answer

What difference does her age make? Just ask her out.

LiamJHayden · Answer

You engage in conversation and suggest a date.

Uglygaypoorcoward94 · Answer

Older single women are lonely horny and love young enthusiastic eager dick. Go feed her

LiamS95 · Answer

Just politely ask her out, thd odds are she'll say yes.

Ladsin2 · Answer

Ask if she's willing to let you bend her over the chifforobe and break her hip.

BlueJeanBaby1994 · Answer

Just ask her out. Before someone beats you to it.

Kingofkings1992 · Answer

What’s the issue? If you like her go for it. What does her age have to do with anything?

Caroline91 · Answer

The same way you ask out any woman.

MemeSupreme · Answer

ask her out BOOM

David318578 · Answer

That's barley older.

Anonymous · Answer

Just man up and ask her straight up

MOUTHWASHING · Answer

You dont. It s a waste of time

MikeRJ · Answer

The same as you ask out a younger woman?

blackeagle007 · Answer

That isn’t a big age difference

Anonymous · Answer

another enraging reminder

Anonymous · Answer

Don't go too old... might get a rotten pussy.

Dongie · Answer

Very hungrily. 😏

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

I wouldn't.

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