Why does this happen to me?

[Anonymous]

Commonly on dating apps I will get ignored or girls will talk to me and then just ghost me, why is this happening?

They think they can do better than me

Other reason

[Anonymous]

Almost all women on dating apps do this man. This IS NOT a YOU problem. This is a THEM problem. Do not beat yourself up for this.

Online dating is mainly for ENTERTAINMENT. The vast majority of them women are on there for aatention and NOTHING more. If you messaged them and maybe even got a couple exchanges, you've served your purpose to them. They had no intention of anything more.

I'm not going to tell you what to do. But i consider messaging ANY woman on a dating app is folly. The ones that are truly interested WILL message you.

[kitty_404]

Honestly, dating apps are like that for a lot of people. I don't think getting ghosted automatically means there's something wrong with you. People have a ridiculous number of options on these apps, so they can lose interest, start talking to someone else, or just disappear instead of communicating properly. But if it's happening constantly, try upgrading ur own profile or maybe change the app, pay attention to how you're starting conversations, and whether you're choosing people who are actually showing consistent interest. It can be a combination of both.

[Masie]

It is really hard to know without more context. It could be your profile or how conversations go. How you come off. What kind of vibe you give off online. It is really hard to tell not knowing you and the context.

[Asker]

But I have a great profile and message normally

[Masie]

Is that your assessment? That isn't subjective you know.

[slatyb]

Give us some excerpts from your profile and an example of your messaging. I dated online successfully for some years before meeting my wife, although I was a bit older than you are.

[slatyb]

Because you are boring AF, or are uninterested in getting to know them. If you constantly hint about sex, most women will drop you. Do you actually know any women?

[Nikki1989]

They are dating apps. What did you expect?

Leave the house, look around, and you’ll find possible dates by the millions. Get on it.

[blshbnz]

Either they’re not interested in you or just there to mess around.

[Anonymous]

They think you are awkward? Too forward? Too slow? It's tough to say without analysing what you say to them.

[Asker]

But I do well and message properly and politely on those apps it just doesn’t make sense

[MrChinaski]

You are on dating apps.

Which casino ever turned a profit by making its clientele win?

[Anonymous]

The apps are just filled with bots to take your money or data that can be sold for money

[DonaldDarko]

They'te flaky and don't even know what they want.