Take the chance?

[Anonymous]

A guy reached out to me, but I already have a lot of doubts.

I personally would like to do a lot of things I have ideas, but I have no partner.

Should I just take him up on his offer because he’s here? See where it goes? Even though I already sense the incompatibility? Should I let proximity equal compatibility for right now since there’s so many things I want to do?

How does this normally end up?

[SueShe]

If you have a minimum of dignity and self-esteem, then you don't take the next available guy just to be like the others. You know it is not going to end well since you have your doubts.

Do you really want to lower your standards so much so that you can fornicate someone? Because, let's be honest. You are closing both eyes on reason for that sole purpose since you know already now it is not going to last an entire life.

Pull your socks up and have a little sense and dignity. I am sure you deserve much better. That sounds so desperate to take a chance.

[Asker]

i’m not fornicating. I just wanted to go to pumpkin patches and take photos. I understand what you’re saying though. thank you genuinely

[Alex-Snow]

What is his "offer" How well do you know him and have you met IRL. How old is the guy?

[Asker]

he’s a year younger than me. I think the offer is to get to know me because he reached out and asked to get to know me. I haven’t said anything yet. He sent it on August 11. I’ve just been watching to see what his lifestyle is like before I take the chance? Haven’t met him in real life yet, but I don’t have any friends so I thought why not.

[Alex-Snow]

Keep following him on socials and if you meet him do it in a public place the first time

[Anonymous]

Yes!