What’s the point of dating if I’m not the most attractive man she could get?

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Because any woman I would be dating would inevitably be settling for me by default, since I wouldn’t be the most well endowed or tallest or most handsome or richest partner she could potentially have…

Coercion_Is_Trauma · Accepted Answer

Unless you have a genetic mutation, you can get jacked and you can get smart enough to afford comfort and thus a consistent method to lay pipe. But it doesn't even sound like you want to lay pipe, do you? Imagine if your type of woman threw herself at you. You would be paranoid that she'll cheat any moment anyway. If she demands you have multiple million$ then she is a gold digger who will eventually want even more millions and by definition, you should be thankful you aren't a millionaire, it feels better to be poor than being exploited. Same goes for height, even if you were tall that wouldn't change anything. My mom complimented my height when trying to set me up with another one of the church girls but then would tell me how my dad is a "long dildo" to insult his height as something bad. Someone with a height fetish will cheat on the second tallest person in the world if they find the #1 tallest one. That's just retarded. Most women without mental retardation just want someone 5-10% taller than themselves. Me, i hate the idea of a woman deviating more than 5-10% from my height either. You surely can turn your reproductive instinct off just the same way people can willingly turn their hunger off and fast for long periods of time. You will still need to have a fight to fight. For some people dating just is a meaning of life, if you find a different meaning you won't need to ask this question thousands of times more.

Chris009800 · Accepted Answer

I never used to think about this stuff back in the late 90's, early 2000's. Women really didn't care as much about things like height, money, huge dicks like you see in porn etc. It was kind of a simpler time. You still had to be good looking and cool though. These days the standards seem higher than ever. Even I'm not interested in dating most of the women I see now. Not that I'm better than them, but the internet has shown everyone the most attractive people, and it's made us all want them.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

No one ever gets the exact perfect person. As long as it's the perfect person for you, that's all that matters.

EmmaMary · Accepted Answer

As I have said several times before, just join a Monastery and become a Monk.

NathanDavis · Answer

I was never THE MOST attractive of all men either

never need that either, was never an issue... there were still enough interested

THE MOST attractive men in a room can only date ONE woman, or two, or three if they swing like that.. but definitely not all everywhere... lol

Nikki1989 · Answer

Legends build bridges. Cowards only burn them down. Don't be that coward.

Anonymous · Answer

wtf. How does she look? You too are clearly going through a lot of women

Anonymous · Answer

Exactly it is pointless

What’s the point of dating if I’m not the most attractive man she could get?

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