Why am I never chosen?

[Anonymous]

I feel like I’m never chosen… I thought i finally found a guy who was genuinely attracted to me possibly and nice… we see eachother and smile and wave… I had been telling my coworker that I thought he was nice and she’s pretty and outgoing… and very social/ talkative… she told me to talk to him and one day she introduced herself and me and he said that he already knows me ect… (he doesn’t work at my job ).. but she was bubbly and I think he may have ended up possibly noticing her or maybe could potentially become attracted… I just feel like I can never find someone who would only see me and want to be with me only when there are so many other better women… I’m working on it but I have a deep insecurities that stem from youth..

Never having a boyfriend at almost 30
Never been asked to prom and my teacher embarrassed me by asking the boys who wanted to take me and they all looked away or laughed.
Being betrayed by a man and rejected
Men i like liking my mom or other close relatives/friends

I like my coworker but to protect my emotional wellbeing I have to just step away… besides I have another job.

[Mark_Est]

Firstly women spent years telling men not to approach. So that limits the motivation to stunners if even that..

Secondly most women are low value std farmers. Men are completely demotivated to deal with any of you other than to scratch an itch. So then again basic looks matter more.

Thirdly most women are some level of fat. And also most women think that acting masculine is cool, while that is disgusting for men. Especially there is a rise of young women who try to race their cars with my motorbike, while trying to act like Vin Diesel. Nuts.

[OlderAndWiser]

Do you think it is your appearance or your personality?

[queenofcardio]

​Maybe work on your insecurities first. Focus on choosing yourself and doing what makes you happy. People will not always make us happy.

​Start there, and I think eventually your perspective will change. People are usually attracted to confident people.

[Anonymous]

No guy or no guy YOU WANT

No guy OWES you anything. If they're not coming to you, you need to go to them. If you don't want to do that. Then learn to be comfortable with being single.

That's just reality.

Life does not care about your insecurities or your past pains

Maybe you're just MEANT to be single.🤷‍♂️

[Anonymous]

Life sucks and than you die. I know how you feel. It feels like there is something wrong with you that scares everyone away, but you feel completely normal. People assume you're fine, but nobody cares about you.

[Anonymous]

If you had a perfect clone, would you choose yourself? There is something great about you and until you figure it out noone else will see it

[Asker]

That was sweet thank you ❤️

[Anonymous]

You don’t allow yourself to be chosen then…

[Mark_Est]

Wow

What nonsense