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I’ve been using a dating app recently as a big fat woman and I have had guys ranging from really ugly or morbidly obese to extremely handsome, hitting on me. I thought there must be a mistake, that no one likes fat women, but I have already attracted two very handsome men online who are far better looking than I am or ever was, even when I was slim and beautiful, before I gained weight for medical reasons and became fat and pretty.
My question is, is it usually a mistake to date extremely handsome men? I don’t usually attract extremely handsome men, although it still happens on rare occasions, even in person. But I’ve never pursued the really handsome ones. Is it wrong to assume that most of them are going to be tempted to cheat when I’m vaguely pretty, chubby and have a double chin I never used to have? Or am I spot on with my assumptions and better off deleting the real matches of this kind that message me, because they’re probably playing the field of cheaters?
I’m not meaning to be judgmental. I simply don’t know the answer, as I lack the personal experience to know what’s wise. Be as honest as you can and please don’t quote inner beauty; because everyone mentions that but no one really believes or follows or, especially not men.
My question is, is it usually a mistake to date extremely handsome men? I don’t usually attract extremely handsome men, although it still happens on rare occasions, even in person. But I’ve never pursued the really handsome ones. Is it wrong to assume that most of them are going to be tempted to cheat when I’m vaguely pretty, chubby and have a double chin I never used to have? Or am I spot on with my assumptions and better off deleting the real matches of this kind that message me, because they’re probably playing the field of cheaters?
I’m not meaning to be judgmental. I simply don’t know the answer, as I lack the personal experience to know what’s wise. Be as honest as you can and please don’t quote inner beauty; because everyone mentions that but no one really believes or follows or, especially not men.
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I would say it mostly has to be about sex for them in this instance because you said you normally don't attract handsome guys. But on a dating app all these dudes are hitting on you. I hate to say it but I would probably lean towards thinking it's because they just want to hookup.
If you're 'chubby' I doubt you're actually fat. Most men like women with meat on their bones and it is much more sexually attractive.
I think most men prefer as skinny as possible, especially the handsome ones
You've been gone from GaG for a while and I was really worried about what happened to you. Your last question you said you were going on a picnic with some guy. I even posted a question about has anyone heard from MissSunshine2? Other members were concerned as well. Glad to see that you are okay.🙂
Listen, I have to warn you about dating sites. When a really good looking guy starts to message you, it's probably a scam. They are called Romance Scams. If they start talking about that you're beautiful and tells you he loves you and messages you a lot every day and night, then asks you for money WATCH OUT!! THAT IS A SCAMMER AND ALL HE WANTS IS YOUR MONEY!
While you were away from here, I was scammed by a guy who messaged me here on GaG. Then he had me open the app for Telegram (another website) and we messaged each other there. He was very good looking too and only 45 years old and I am 72. He told me that age doesn't matter to him. They will lie to you and tell you things to make you feel like a princess. They will call you My Queen.
PLEASE BE VERY CAREFUL WITH DATING ONLINE!
Hey sorry for worrying everyone. I just had a mountain of community college assignments and another work placement and a deadline to meet, with all of them. I literally was too tired, busy and stressed to log into gag, as much as I usually love being on here. 🥰💕
I just finished recently, for the year ☺️
I didn't know there's a connection between appearance and cheating.
Maybe you're picking up on the fact that people tend to seek out partners who are similar to themselves. When there are big differences it seems like the relationship will have problems. It isn't surprising that the more attractive person will have more options to cheat or enter a new relationship. The choice to cheat is a moral one.
If after reading the handsoem guy's profiles and you're interested, why don't you ask what they're looking for? There's no reason you couldn't mention your surprise that they're interested in a fat woman.
Ugly and average men are just as bad. I’ve seen so many examples. They zero percent better than handsome attractive men, often times they’re actually worse because some of them have some insecurities and aome of them are bitter they haven’t been able to sleep around/date as much as they would have wished. Often they change when they get a girlfriend and suddenly think they’re gods gift to women because one woman wants him, so they think all women now wants him and they try their luck cheating. Same with social/outgoing/popular vs shy/insecure/unpopular men in general.
I don't think handsome men cheat more than ugly ones. At least by girls I know it's completely the opposite true. However I don't want oppose some serious statistic about this topic (if any exists) and making an assumption without hard statistical evidences isn't a smart move. For looking of avoiding handsome men.
I just take them if I they are interested because I can. lol
A lot of handsome men cheat, but not all. Don’t rule them all out.
I’m talking extremely handsome men. Men that look like a young bearded Barry Gibb, or a young bearded Cat Stevens. Men who are very masculine and physically beautiful. Whereas I’m fat and vaguely pretty or cute. But obviously quite overweight, but not morbidly obese.
Not all of them cheat. Don’t rule them out automatically.
I was genuinely surprised. I assumed that not being beautiful or slim until I’m on a specialised diet to counteract the medicine weight gain, instantly ruled me out to ninety nine percent of the attractive men, although I rejected a plus sized modelling career a few years ago so I can’t be as repulsive as I feel.
Some guys like curvy girls
I guess that must surely be true, as otherwise they’d all be too grossed out by my blubber to think of hitting on me.
I’m sure you’re really pretty. Don’t be scared of handsome guys. Some of them are as loyal and faithful as you could want.
Still be careful and don’t trust anyone right away. A lot of guys do cheat. But don’t automatically say no to a guy because he’s handsome.
All you can do is go with the one you "click" with the most, give them a chance and see what happens.
All men have the potential to cheat.
What Spencer10 said, I see no reason to connect morality to any aesthetical judgement. I see all reasons to connect the former to a personality instead
Honestly I feel like unattractive guys are more likely to cheat or attempt to because someone wanting them gives them confidence
I do not think a persons appearance determines their morality...
that reminds me of a gag from an Abbott and Costello movie.
https://www.youtube.com/embed/ohwVNKrZqkUI read men cheat because their not getting the sex they want.
Well what type of handsome is he? And what about his personality and the kind of person he is
Not all will cheat
Are they worth a shot or are the hot ones probably a waste of time? I know I can do better than the ugly ones and the morbidly obese guys, as I am fat but pretty and not morbidly obese myself; but I honestly wonder if handsome is unrealistic when I am just fat but pretty.
Until I lose some weight with the help of a specialised diet and exercise plan?
Ugly guys will cheat too lol…
that's a fallacy
Cheating doesn't depend on whether they are handsome or not
I don't think that is true at all.
No, and they are not more likely to cheat.
not all handsome guys are scum. Just be careful.
No date Christian men
Wow! I can't believe you just asked this question
Absolutely not.