What can I do if I always attract unattractive boys for serious relationships?

[Anonymous]

Every time it’s a good looking guy, he only wants a short-term relationship. I don’t think I look too bad but I am attracted to a small fraction of men.

[Laws-Of-Existence]

Do you sloot around with anyone at all? It attracts sick men. ㅤ

[RavVid]

Its called self reflection and realism.

You have an established pattern of trying to form relationships with men you find attractive but finding they are only interested in short term. You need realism and self reflection on that.

A little realism tells us if you find a man attractive, other girls will find the same man attractive.

A little more realism will tell you that men, you and other girls find attractive, may just be interested in you because you are a new girl they haven't had sex with yet. You should know this because you have found they don't hang around. Tell yourself 'they just wanted a new girl to fuck' as a mantra.

Your make up might be impeccable but that is not your real beauty. Self reflection will tell you that what you see in the mirror isn't you - it's a paint job. Sooner or later in a multi-week relationship, your guy will see your your face naked without makeup.

Your real beauty is your natural beauty. With make up you might think you are a 9 when you are just an average 5. About the only thing you can do for your natural beauty is to manage your weight so do do that. It does affect how men see you.

Then there are personality and character traits men look for in woman. They haven't changed since the Agricultural Revolution though things might have been a little different in the tribal days.

Would a man go for a peerless beauty who was a nag or a less beautiful woman who gave him peace. The latter of course.

If you are what men want a woman to be than you have a competitive advantage because few women are in 2026.

[Nikki1989]

If you have a habit of being empathetic, you might be attracting partners who lean heavily on you for validation, ego boosts, or emotional rescue. It happens.

[queenofcardio]

You can try changing your appearance if you want to see if it will make a difference in the type of men you're attracting.

[Anonymous]

Maybe you have a bad personality. Nothing about you says she’s wife material. Plus you’re older so most men are looking at women’s little younger. If you’re only attracting unattractive guys as you say than the issue has to be w you, not them. Maybe you’re overestimating your looks.

[Asker]

You’re the perfect example why I hate ugly boys because they’re usually old and entitled

[Opinion Owner]

Sure I’ll take the blame. Since you don’t want to be accountable for why you’re still single, recreational purposes only. This is all you girl. Not me, not the rest of the ugly men in the world. It’s you.

[blackeagle007]

Women do overrate themselves. Only demand guys that are perfect 10s and rich. Perhaps your standards are way high?

[Asker]

@blackeagle007 A 40+ man is a solid 3

[melnc]

So basically you're saying I look average, but you see the opposite? Yeah, sure, keep telling yourself that.

[Anonymous]

The small fraction of men you are attracted to are players.

[Anonymous]

Don’t date them then.