How would you feel if a girl asked you on a picnic date in a park?

[Anonymous]

How would you feel if a girl you didn't know very well say a dating app or coffee shop whatever.

Asked you on a date to a public park or garden to say have a picnic play , a boardgame or , paint

[Anonymous]

It depends. Am I attracted to her. If so then I’m ok w it. I’m ok w us just taking a walk. Men don’t need to be romanticize or have hundreds of dollars spent on us to go on a date w a woman if she’s asking.

[Asker]

I can't say I require a large some of money be spent on me either I just like painting it Makes me feel like I can get to know you better rather than like the movie's or something

[Opinion Owner]

I think too many women these days have complicated things as far as dating. If he doesn’t want to spend hundreds of dollars on her on a first date he’s considered broke who shouldn’t even be dating.

[Asker]

I always hear these stories but the woman in my life aren't like that so I'm not really familiar with it honestly

[Opinion Owner]

Well that’s good. Don’t be like that.

[Asker]

I don't really have any intentions of it

[Opinion Owner]

So are you planning on asking some man out?

[Asker]

Oh this was just a hypothetical I've asked men out in the past though it didn't go well for me 😅 I've been rejected a lot honestly some rejections more embarrassing then others 🤣.

I did make a date plan with my best friend of 12 years he lives 7 hours away we were going to meet halfway in Indiana in this little town and take a boat ride through a cavarn and get ice cream but I cancelled our date the day before because I knocked my front tooth out imagine my surprise when the dolt drove 7 hours just to eat soup with this toothless reject of a woman.

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe because he likes you as more than a friend. A majority of men aren’t going to do that.

[Asker]

Oh yah no that was supposed to be our first date as more than friends he kinda confessed that he's loved me for 8 years or so since the first time we spent all night on my couch talking with each other. He kissed me pretty much the second we were alone it surprised me because I thought he was just going to hug me

[Opinion Owner]

So why is it barely Joe a thing? You weren’t into him like that? You ever been married or have kids?

[Asker]

Well we were friends for years I just assumed he wasn't interested in me like that especially since we are pretty different people. I ended up in a relationship with this other guy for 7 years who treated me like shit honestly but I couldn't get away from him. I broke up with him last year a few months later my friend gave me this long confession.

I just never put him in a romantic light because he didn't seem like he wanted that

[Opinion Owner]

I see. But you don’t have kids right?

[Asker]

No I don't but I'm also not likely able to with medical issues though I still take birth control

[Opinion Owner]

I’m sorry to hear that. So what part of the states you live?

[Asker]

Illinois currently I'm kinda staying at a friend's as a " roommate" I pay rent obviously but they are letting me stay here while I wait for my house to sell off when it finally dose I'll never have to speak toy ex ever again 🥳

[Opinion Owner]

What happened w that? You had a house w an ex?

[Asker]

Yah we bought a house together and he stated fucking our roommate alongside any other women willing to open her legs so I broke up with him

[Opinion Owner]

I’m sorry to hear that. At least you’re out of that situation now.
So what’s it like in Illinois? I’ve never been there. I’d like to one day.

[Asker]

Illinois is overrated at best but I've made some amazing friends here. Illinois is hot muggy filled with drug addicts and a lot of close-minded people. But it has its good moments. The guy I'm seeing lives in Michigan

[Opinion Owner]

I see. Sounds like that’s everywhere no matter where you go. But my plan is to visit all the states. I’ve been to I believe about 32 of them.

[Asker]

What's your favorite so far

[Opinion Owner]

Honestly I couldn’t pick just one. Numerous states have thing so loved about them. Oregon was really nice along the coast, driving up all the way from California to Oregon then into Washington State. Colorado was very nice as well, full of nature, a lot of water. Iif I really had to pick I’d say NYC cause of the variety of things. I’ve taken numerous trips there and there’s always something new to do or see. I love it there.

[NathanDavis]

if I know her... not well, but a little bit, then yes

that would be enough for me, and I'd take her on that date

[Asker]

Isn't she technically taking you on a date

[NathanDavis]

sure, lol

makes no difference to me... we will both be there

[slatyb]

It's always flattering to be asked. That doesn't mean I would always accept, but if not I would be kind.

[Alex-Snow]

I think it would be fun. It is low key and a good way to get to know each other. Have you tried it with guys?

[scott04sa22]

Not me because I dont meet the requirements or the criteria of datings.

[Asker]

I'm confused

[scott04sa22]

If a woman ask me for a picnic then my answer is no because I dont meet her requirements.

[Asker]

How do you not?

[scott04sa22]

It's all about the looks and women never ask guys out for picnics who doesn't have the looks.

[Asker]

That seems like a rather silly assumption if you ask me but sure obviously is she's asking you on a date it's because she wants you on the date

[scott04sa22]

Nope women never ask me out on dates. Women only ask hotter men out on date who has the looks, who over 6 feel tall in height and especially who has cars and i don't drive at all. That why im disqualified for dating and i always reject them so it saves the troubles more easily but again women only date hotter men with looks.

[Asker]

Um I've only dated a 6 ft man once in my life the man I date currently is the same height as me 5'6 he's a little pudgy with these warm brown eyes typically his head is a little sunburned because he's bald has this brown beard and giggle's like the Pillsbury dough boy when I scratch it. Calussed stained fingers and a plump rounded face that turns all red when he's flustered and I wouldn't change him even if I could he's so sweet and huggable

[scott04sa22]

Good for you. As I mentioned before i don't meet the requirements of dating because I don't drive at all.

[Asker]

Why do you need to drive to date? My ex boyfriend didn't even have a driver's license when we got together I'm actually the one who taught him to drive

[scott04sa22]

Because Women find guys "more attractive" behind the wheel. It shows the guy more eligible towards modern dating as of today.

[scott04sa22]

Also women prefers "charming men" and knows how to woo women.

[Asker]

I still wouldn't call it a requirement. You also don't need to be charming though it probably helps. I definitely wouldn't describe any of the men I dated as " charming" nerdy yah probably perhaps Goofy but charming not so much I adore the man I'm with but he can't flirt to save his life and hints go right over his head I need to be very direct with him.

[scott04sa22]

Driving IS the requirement for modern dating now.

This most of my list on way I don't meet the requirements or the criteria of datings.

1. I dont drive.

2. I'm not over 6 feet tall.

3. I'm not sexuality compatible with anyone.

4. I don't meet the looks requirements.

5. Women dont like peaceful or quiet guys.

The list goes on 🤣

[Asker]

Apparently list doesn't go far enough because all of these just seem like you hating on yourself rather than it mattering to a woman. How are you not sexually compatible

[scott04sa22]

My list goes over 100

[shortster]

Disappointed in the choice, but go and try to make the best of it anyways.

[Asker]

What's wrong with the choice

[shortster]

Bugs and wind; and that is if it is a nice day.

[Asker]

What would you consider better

[shortster]

If it is a meal, indoors is best. Outside date ideas, stroll through a park, botanical gardens, zoo, amusement park, or Renaissance festival.

[Asker]

But didn't you just say the park was a disappointment?

[shortster]

No, the picnic is.

[Asker]

Oh I also gave examples for painting in the park or a board game

[spartan55]

I would feel very good.

[Anonymous]

That sounds like a fun first date.

[Pterodon]

I’d be flattered