most likely he would like that very much but depends on the guy.
if he is more conservative or has the need to show his manlyhood or that he can support you, then he might not like it or in extreme case get offended. but i think its reaaaallllyyy unlikely.
so most men would be happy. i know i would.
and if you want to do so more often, then you can just tell him and talk it out.
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I think it should be equal when dating, especially in the beginning and the first few dates, so I'd love it. It would also show me she was "investing" in it also, and not just out for the free dates, as there are some women like this.
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I mean I would appreciate it. I’ve dated women before or had girlfriends that got the check. It’s definitely unexpected when it happens. Just don’t make a big deal out of it before hand. Just pick up the bill when the check comes and say “Don’t worry about it. This one’s on me.” He’ll be pleasantly surprised and you get to play it cool.
Women are banned in my life for ever but if this would be just a social meeting
I won't mind if she wants to then she can , I just hope she don't brag about it later then it will be differentMy chivalric upbringing would force me to also offer to pay. But if you’re insistent I’d acquiesce.
That’s actually a good test if your dates are ok with a woman taking control. If they’re not, that could be a red flag.If a female asks me out and I want to go out with her, I would go out with her. If she offers to pay for me, I would say thank you and accept because it's 2022, not 1906.
I say go for it; I personally would have no problem with that just as long as it was the way she wanted to do it...
Old rule. "If you invite you pay" but there is no problem in sharing or the girl paying sometimes. The game now is reversed, and there are a lot of guys abusing the girls and making them pay for everything in the name of empowerment
I wouldn't care, I never spend money on dates, I wouldn't accept anyway.
I would feel baffled at why she offered to pay for the date.
Why do I get the feeling that girls asking guys out, will forever be rare or never become normalized
I would really appreciate it.
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