What's a small thing someone can do that instantly makes you lose interest in them?

[Veronika_p]

For me, it's being unkind to people, especially people who have done absolutely nothing wrong to them. The way someone treats a waiter, a stranger, an elderly person, or someone who can't do anything for them tells me a lot about their character.

You can be attractive, intelligent, funny, and have everything going for you, but the moment I see you humiliating someone, being unnecessarily rude, or treating people like they are beneath you, something changes for me. I start seeing you differently.

I believe kindness is one of the most attractive qualities a person can have, and cruelty is one of the quickest ways to lose that attraction. ❤️ You don't have to be everyone's best friend, but you should know how to treat people with basic respect.

And the thing is, I pay attention to the little things. Sometimes, it's not a big betrayal or some terrible mistake that makes you lose interest in someone. It's one small moment that reveals something about them you can no longer ignore.

So, what's that little thing someone can do that instantly changes how you see them? Is it arrogance, dishonesty, bad manners, being rude to strangers, or something else entirely

[ohsheeT]

Your one hundred % right

For me it the same thing and even on here in the romance Department when a girl will ask a question about a guy and I always try to tell them learn how to read them

If a guy treats somebody in a certain way and you don't like it it's just a matter of time before he treats you the same way so get out of the relationship you cannot change that person take off this Rose Colored Glasses because he's not going to change he just prove to you exactly who he was

But you have to be able to read the guy there are moments in time where he might say something harsh to somebody one of his friends or his family members because he has been through in a million times with them and it just comes a point in time where he might say something that others might not like but there's a reason for it so they have to understand that but it's all in the tone of voice and the words that are used that's the big difference

But I do agree with you There's no reason to be rude to anybody This is when There's a thing called control And if you can't control yourself If you can't control your words The girl better run because He's not going to be able to do it With her either

So it's all about discipline and control really if you don't know who you are and you're out of control then you're out of control with everything

But the guy that seeds both sides of everything Can control himself Because he understands that Life is life and everybody's going to a different one Just be patient And help the person don't take from the person And don't put anybody down

You can tell the difference between guys if one loves himself and one doesn't they're two different people

[Taranis_Thunor]

When someone deceives me, especially if there's wicked intend behind it. I have the urge to strike them down like the Thunderer.

Bullies are also bad but most adults learn to disguise their bullying through deception & underhandedness.

[sage2021]

Someone who doesn't mind breaking the rules or the law but always trying to get away with anything they want.

Talking down to anyone as if they're better.

Playing phone games! Saying they'll text you and don't. Or when it makes a big difference who texts first because they have a big ego and won't text first.

Stealing from anyone especially me.

[valentina4eva]

for suree cruelty & rudeness!!💯 also any insecurity & lack of confidence makes me lose interest quick, not that it should but just how im wired😲😅

[Taranis_Thunor]

With the insecurity and lack of confidence that's what all women are wired to look for, which is why it's harder for men to live up to women's expectations of them.

[Interstate]

HEAD GAMES!!! I don't put up with them and I don't play them. Anybody who is going to reach that level of disrespect gets ejected from my life!

[NathanDavis]

reveal their little supremacist tattoo... lol

[Staximus]

If she keeps looking at her phone when we’re out to dinner, Or wants attention from other guys

[Staximus]

If a girl tries to make me compete for her attention I’m gone

[Staximus]

And what you said also, like if she treats the waiter or waitress like a servant, doesn’t like kids or old people

[msc545]

Being inconsiderate in terms of responding to messages and things of that sort is enough to make me go away.

[thegreenyogi]

Patronise me for being single.

[lilBigPotato]

100% agree.

[Pterodon]

Manners

[eagle1951]

flirt