No, I just lose interest in my love interests easily if neither of us bother enough to make a move. I do not lose interests in my friends, even online friends, those I chat with everyday, I do not lose interest in them because they are different kinds of amazing. Hard to lose interest in amazing people.
My crushes do not last for long because I coerce myself into finding faults in them if they never notice me. Once when I was in high school, I was head over heels for this really popular guy. He never cared to notice me, but I thought he was quite hot, confident and manly. I forced myself to hate something about him that would make my feelings vanish. I did trick myself into thinking he was average looking by hating on his personality; he was a sweetheart, but the people he associated himself with were not. Anyway, my crush on him vanished within 3 weeks.
My limerence does last for a very long time though.
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It depends on the person and how they behave and act because some people get more interesting over time and some people get less interesting over time. But nobody is going to be sunshine and flowers 24/7. Everyone has dark moral spots.
Yes, its call relationship burn out... its like a thin line for me. Either they text or chat you up too much or they go the opposite way and are not attentive enough. So that causes me to think they are too desperate, not interested enough or other wise too busy with their own lives and not interested in dating... and then I loss interest.
It's hard to say. I prefere to be alone most of the time and i'm not good with other people. It is hard for me to focus on someone and get bored quickly. I do lose interest in people but it also can be that i never was interested in the first place. It is because of my mental health
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Yes especially when all they talk about is themselves 🥱
There are levels of interest based on how interesting people are. I can be casually interested in someone and that fades quickly if their character is lacking. I’m not easily deeply interested in the first place. So once i’m invested, i’m harder to lose than a bad penny. I’m a terrible friend though, so people lose interest in me.
Not loose. Maybe they never gained interest to begin with and ran out of chances.
When people stop trying to have a conversation I lose interest in childish bickering, if that answers your question.
I mean it does definitely happen. I think more so when I have people who I get close to out of a sense of necessity and then suddenly I don’t feel it necessary to force myself anymore for whatever reason.
Yeah it's called People Not being Interesting. if someone isn't Interesting I don't care what happens to them. But If there interesting then I'm more willing to Be there when They need someone.
Human life only matters if the human is interesting.Yeah, usually within a few months. I usually try not to kill the relationship I had with that person , usually a friend, but I do end up talking less. It's one of the reasons why I usually avoided making friends.
Yeah, I kinda do nowadays.
I'll join their hoorah if I'm bored or tasks are completed.
If I think they'll give me a good laugh then I'll stick around, but the interest, for me, is quite low.
Nope!. I don’t lose interest in people quickly.
No, but I have a hard time letting people in. I don't lose interest because there was no interest to begin with. But the people I do let in, fascinate me to no end.
if they have no hobbies outside of staring at the phone, yes, i notice most can't even hold a decent convo in person or online
Yup, on trigger and I am over it. I did not have this instinct always but after few life experiences this is how it has been.
Yeah. Someone's personality can make me lose interest.
Lately yes. and the worst is I can't understand why..
Not really. It's hard for me to FIND an interest in ''people''.
No! I used to, but then I grew up and realized that people are actually really interesting, I just sucked at asking questions.
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nope... I usually stick with them for years, lol
If they are easily forgotten, yes.
If they are interesting, and have at least a partially functioning brain and one or two similar interests as I do, should be no problem.
Most people yes. I’m a loner by nature and very easily bored by unimaginative fake actors. Be real, be yourself, have real thoughtful ideas and opinions. And be open to discuss and to learn while retaining confidence in yourself
People in general? Pretty easily if I don't really vibe with them not even gonna lie
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