Do you easily lose interest in people?

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WonderBell99 · Accepted Answer

No, I just lose interest in my love interests easily if neither of us bother enough to make a move. I do not lose interests in my friends, even online friends, those I chat with everyday, I do not lose interest in them because they are different kinds of amazing. Hard to lose interest in amazing people.

My crushes do not last for long because I coerce myself into finding faults in them if they never notice me. Once when I was in high school, I was head over heels for this really popular guy. He never cared to notice me, but I thought he was quite hot, confident and manly. I forced myself to hate something about him that would make my feelings vanish. I did trick myself into thinking he was average looking by hating on his personality; he was a sweetheart, but the people he associated himself with were not. Anyway, my crush on him vanished within 3 weeks.

My limerence does last for a very long time though.

jennifer_bloom · Accepted Answer

It depends on the person and how they behave and act because some people get more interesting over time and some people get less interesting over time. But nobody is going to be sunshine and flowers 24/7. Everyone has dark moral spots.

DaveJord · Accepted Answer

Yes, its call relationship burn out... its like a thin line for me. Either they text or chat you up too much or they go the opposite way and are not attentive enough. So that causes me to think they are too desperate, not interested enough or other wise too busy with their own lives and not interested in dating... and then I loss interest.

Adititte · Accepted Answer

It's hard to say. I prefere to be alone most of the time and i'm not good with other people. It is hard for me to focus on someone and get bored quickly. I do lose interest in people but it also can be that i never was interested in the first place. It is because of my mental health

Pinay_ako · Answer

Yes especially when all they talk about is themselves 🥱

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

There are levels of interest based on how interesting people are. I can be casually interested in someone and that fades quickly if their character is lacking. I’m not easily deeply interested in the first place. So once i’m invested, i’m harder to lose than a bad penny. I’m a terrible friend though, so people lose interest in me.

dustybiker · Answer

Not loose. Maybe they never gained interest to begin with and ran out of chances.

Sixgunsound · Answer

When people stop trying to have a conversation I lose interest in childish bickering, if that answers your question.

Th3ft · Answer

I mean it does definitely happen. I think more so when I have people who I get close to out of a sense of necessity and then suddenly I don’t feel it necessary to force myself anymore for whatever reason.

PetiteBabe64 · Answer

Yeah it's called People Not being Interesting. if someone isn't Interesting I don't care what happens to them. But If there interesting then I'm more willing to Be there when They need someone.
Human life only matters if the human is interesting.

letuswaltzforthedead · Answer

Yeah, usually within a few months. I usually try not to kill the relationship I had with that person , usually a friend, but I do end up talking less. It's one of the reasons why I usually avoided making friends.

Rosexøxø · Answer

Yeah, I kinda do nowadays.  I'll join their hoorah if I'm bored or tasks are completed.  If I think they'll give me a good laugh then I'll stick around, but the interest, for me, is quite low.

Topaz1979 · Answer

Nope!. I don’t lose interest in people quickly.

AddylynnNightingale · Answer

No, but I have a hard time letting people in. I don't lose interest because there was no interest to begin with. But the people I do let in, fascinate me to no end.

misfittoy · Answer

if they have no hobbies outside of staring at the phone, yes, i notice most can't even hold a decent convo in person or online

hihihiok · Answer

Yup, on trigger and I am over it. I did not have this instinct always but after few life experiences this is how it has been.

BlackElph · Answer

Yeah. Someone's personality can make me lose interest.

Lina26 · Answer

Lately yes. and the worst is I can't understand why..

andreasderjuengere · Answer

Not really. It's hard for me to FIND an interest in ''people''.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

No! I used to, but then I grew up and realized that people are actually really interesting, I just sucked at asking questions.

NathanDavis · Answer

nope... I usually stick with them for years, lol

Massageman · Answer

If they are easily forgotten, yes. If they are interesting, and have at least a partially functioning brain and one or two similar interests as I do, should be no problem.

Charliefretz329 · Answer

Most people yes. I’m a loner by nature and very easily bored by unimaginative fake actors. Be real, be yourself, have real thoughtful ideas and opinions. And be open to discuss and to learn while retaining confidence in yourself

Jacobbbb · Answer

People in general? Pretty easily if I don't really vibe with them not even gonna lie

DizzyDesii · Answer

Absolutely if we have less in common than I expected

BlueScorpio · Answer

No, only if they are very distant and rude.

Smegskull · Answer

Yes. After knowing someone for about a year and regularly interacting with them I can emulate them in my head well enough that the actual person becomes a slow redundant version of them and is not just boring but often frustrating.

exitseven · Answer

No, I really do not. People sometimes get into a slump. It s usually temporary

JSmuve · Answer

Hell ya. People bore the shit out of me. It's a small wonder that I've been on this site for as long as I have.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Yes. If they don't show me a photograph. I need to see what someone looks like to be interested in them.

Iron_Man · Answer

I’m the most loyal guy you’ll ever know. I don’t ditch my friends or my girlfriend that I love

ODC2112 · Answer

I easily lose interest in people when they are the thickness of a puddle. Now more and more people are people like that.

BJP21 · Answer

If you're rude, distant, and disrespectful or have a great deal of Cognitive Dissidence then yes I will lose interest.

Hairylegs222 · Answer

Of course when she's a loser toxic annoying super emotional cray cray

annabananna · Answer

Not really if the the connection is good. I usually like someone for awhile

dragoblack · Answer

Yep, especially if they are toxic, turn into someone toxic, or don't want to put in any effort to be my friend

Chance_CMB · Answer

So easily like whenever I make first attempt and get rejected I'm never going back but now I'm learning to pursue what I like, I now persist a little bit before loosing interset

HaveNoName · Answer

With visual red flags, yes. I call those traits "eliminators".

TroyDT · Answer

Romantically, yes. I am far more choosy than warranted by reality. With friends, no.

AngryCarl · Answer

No, I find most people endlessly fascinating.

TallAnon · Answer

There's some condition that make me lose interest very quickly, drama is an instant goodbye.

melanieeeB · Answer

Yeaaah way too fast... what about you?

Hardworkingguy · Answer

No. Some people surprise me by being a good individual but most are not and that's no surprise

AsaKyo · Answer

No, they lose interest in me

Nikki1989 · Answer

Yes, it happens.

weirdToast · Answer

No, but I don't give as much focus as I could

jasco · Answer

If they can't hold a conversation than yes

Fuentes · Answer

I'm never interested in the first place

loveslongnails · Answer

Only if they're stupid. LOL

sirderpsalot123 · Answer

It depends on the person.

Sparkie460 · Answer

It really depends on the person

eagle1951 · Answer

i do these days

peedy · Answer

Not interest its patience I lose

Zolly99999 · Answer

If they are boring yes...

legalboxers · Answer

no I hang onto the bitter end...

BLP11520 · Answer

No , but life is busy free time is very little

Tina19 · Answer

Yes i do

humanearth · Answer

No not really

hellfirec · Answer

Yes I do

Staximus · Answer

Not really

Debbie14217 · Answer

no not really

ZenJen444 · Answer

Yes..

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