
Do you lose interest in people after knowing them for long?


No not really.. I'm pretty picky on who I let in... so if I'm your friend It's because who you are what you're all about
And if that's the case then you have very good qualities that I like
In lthere's people that call people friends and when that happens. It's usually on the true friend and the other person is just a friend when they need something.
It seems like.
But if I call you friend , i'm pretty loyal
And if it's a relationship.
I'm very loyal. And if I didn't think it was going to work, I wouldn't even start it. I would just remain friends
You are a nice person š
It happens a lot of times when two people just arenāt meant to be and both persons create a fantasy in their heads of what the other person is like only to really get to know one another and find out that they arenāt all what they made them out to be.
Thatās why itās important to really genuinely try to get to know someone. Not make someone into someone they just may not be either to figure out itās not going to work or build a more lasting bond and relationship.
Also, some people just grow apart and change.
There's certainly a reason for the fires taming and possibly going out when you've known someone for too long. You know too much about them and it leads to friend-zoning.
However in some cases there's a forever love that reduces to a slow burn... only to be rediscovered and fanned back to life after both individuals have gained experience and understanding of the world.
Not at all, the more I know them the more I'm drawn to them, I don't believe in loosing interest unless they do something that turns me off... i loose interest quick in that case.
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No. The longer I know someone, the more I generally care and am loyal the them.
Thatās nice š
They decide, not me.
If they're not worth it, I surely will lessen even my courtesy to a level they know I'm just being formal and am forced to interact with them.
If there's a good level, it keeps normal.
As for 'losing interest'.. maybe.
Like I've decided not seeing my closest friend anymore for him not taking boycotting Genocide supporters seriously. It is just absolutely disgusting.
So.. yes. I lost interest due to his actions and beliefs and I shall not compromise mine being neutral with his likes.
I mean to sayI lost interest due to a reason.. not just time.
@liaraven sometimes I wonder if people are imitating me or just crushing on me and trying to act cool. However as the overthinking 30 year old that I'm, and an introvert, surely it's all in my mind lol. Checks phone 📱😅
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@liaraven I meant the checking phone as in "checks phone" when one feels awkward or nothing else to do, like twiddling thumbs lol šš»šš»
@liaraven a modern version of "act cool" *plays on phone* lol š¤³š»š±
Hmmm
@liaraven or maybe it's just the women. Lol eye contact - some people's worst fear for showing feelings maybe. Or even bad acting. Ah well - eye candy me or not, I'm just going about my lifestyle. I try not to stare as I know I don't like to be stared or gazed at lol š too much I mean who does that. So I just enjoy my 30/31 years ongoing ,šššš
Nah that's toxic but I've had this happen to me a lot, I don't care tho cause they learn something new about me if they ever try to return, they will find themselves in my absence.
That's really toxic, Chico
What is?
No i dont get bored of people but if they have a constant attitude or big ego, i start to distance myself from them
I don't like arrogant people
Nope I don't. But I lose interest quick when a girl is rude, racist, xenophobic, islamoph0bic, cheating, ghosting me & ignoring me.
For sure, these are red lines
Yes dear they are š
That's why I prefer chatty and open minded girl š
not at all, no...
my longest time friend in this life... been just over 20 years and we still feel like it's the first days... lol
Thatās very nice lol
it's been a delight... no doubt
Time is irrelevant except for showing me their true colors
If I like the person beyond the superficial layer I will like them indefinitely
Nice
The human experience of ālosing interestā is usually tied to a desire for novelty, growth, and connection. I, personally, have rarely ever experienced it.
No, only if they do something annoying.
Fair enough
Long term friendships come from accepting each others shortcomings.
Maybe, it wonāt work with some people
I think this tends to be more common among women than guys. This is my opinion only.
I don't think it's a gender related but it's your opinion
I think it's related to what we do, how we evolve, on our own and together, after years of relations, be it for friendship or romance. I don't think time itself can separate me from closed ones, but evolving tastes, recognition or philosophies may provoke that
Usually they loose interest in me. If you've been close with someone for years, I don't understand how you can suddenly just loose interest in them
These are people. Not toys or hobbies
Some people can get boring but I find if they do they aren't meant for my life the people I keep around I don't get board of
No, I lose interest if they lose interest in me. I have the same friends I had from grade school.
Seems less or more depending but all the same
Not usually... I tend to find people very interesting.
Nope. If something significantly changes I might feel like the contact is unsustainable, but time would never have me tire of a person I've let in.
I've had a few friends for more than a half-century, but most dull-normal plain Janes and Joe Averages bore the h**l out of me.
Nah. I'm f ienda with a couple of people and. I still find them fascinating to listen to because I wonder sometimes what's going on in their head? Like where that thought from?
Sometimes yessss. Example. Guy friend which I wanted,,, and I skinny dipped and he had the smallest tiniest little micro dick
(Just about his pubic hair length and pencil thin) when hard... lost allll interest in him...
It really depends on the person's personality. I would say generally no. I don't lose interest over time if they're what I'm looking for.
No. People grow and change and that often causes a connection the break. You no longer see eye to eye.
Not often unless they behave badly. I'm pretty good at judging people's depth soon after I meet them.
No i don't not if the do thing that peek my interest
No, on the contrary, I have become more attached to it.
Once I become friends with someone or once I get into a relationship Iām super loyal!
if I donāt like the person romantically I just keep them strictly as a friend- Iām very direct lol
Definitely but there is one person I keep losing interest and gaining it back again
If I am friends with them, never. The rest, yeah I do.
I loose interest in people after knowing them for 15 minutes.
No I don't see that happening
Only if they start showing their hole.
Which hole lol
Their ass but in their personality lol.
Some. When that happens it's usually bc we're not in the same circles.
You grow together so it shouldn't
Not necessarily
Only in some people who don't have a good personality.
After seeing their true intentions
No, that's a clear sign of a toxic person.
No? What kind of question is this.
Nope
I don't know next question
Next question is, if you don't know why you answered the question lol
Not at all
Nope i don't
Not if I like what I find out.
Sometimes, but not if theyāre good
Ofcourse not
Not usually
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