Why do you lose interest in someone? I mean after a while , but in the begining you likes them?

[Anonymous]

Tell me all about it

[Fireguy17]

When you first start dating everything is all new, both of you are on your best behavior so to speak.
It is more like your representative.
You do everything together, sex is great, after a while things start to slowly change.
You get to know the real person, he is a slob, she won't do things in bed anymore, just plain vanilla sex, he drinks too much, watches endless football games and won't go apple picking with her.
So you start to lose interest in each other.

[In_Trance]

I think people have a misconception about this. In the beginning you're intrigued to find out whether there is genuine interest and as time moves forward you find out there is none.

Intrigue is not interest. All too often people hold on to the idea of intrigue, hoping for something more