when they think they're too good for everyone when in reality their personality is so horrendous that no one even wants to be around them 😂
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Well, speaking from the heart, the biggest romance-killer for me is inconsistency. It's that rollercoaster where one day it's lovebombing texts and heart emojis, and the next, it's like you're messaging a ghost. It's all about the vibe, right? If someone starts shifting from hot to cold faster than summer weather in San Francisco, my interest packs its bags and takes a little vacation. Consistency is the secret sauce to keeping the flame alive, and when it's missing, it's a giant red flag waving goodbye to my interest. 😅 Let's keep the connection real and steady!
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If they had my interest and I lost it, it means they didn’t show enough interest that was necessary to keep mine.
When she says all she does is "work and home", when asked about her interests. When she says something insignificant & common a guy does, is an "ick" (such as bicycles, plays videogames, watches anime, knows how to cook... etc.) .
When she obsesses over how much money a guy has (if your focus is how much a guy makes, its a major red flag. If a guy lives alone in his own place, keeps it clean, and all the basics for surviving on his own; that's all you need to know, to know about his financial situation).
Shows obvious signs she just wants a sugardaddy so she can be lazy.
Has unrealistic expectations for a partner.
When she has constant uses subtext to her words (if you can't be honest and straightforward about what you want to tell me, i don't want to deal with you)Arrogance, dishonesty, worship of money/material goods, inconsistency, when they display misogynistic, honophobic, transphobic and racist views, never asks you shit and is never curious about you, avoids commitment, he holds you to stricter standards than he holds himself.
i honestly don't think i will like someone who would remind me of my father i don't think i'm into older pips it's just a suspicion though. i believe that the worst thing that you can do to someone is making them feel you love them or tell them you lovecthem when you honestly don't and so it's my number one rulw to never be with someone if i don't romantically like them. but if i'm with you trust me i'm really with you AND NOT USE YOU.
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she took her jacket off... then I noticed one racist tattoo too many... lol
There is no doubt physical beauty is the primary arousal of interest but niceness is long term maintainer of interest.
If I suddenly have evidence she isn't so nice i will suddenly lose all interest.
When my imagination about some personality things is disturbed by too many discrepancies of reality. It's never about the optic, but I can't stand some behaviors
Sometimes you can see something about somebody that was always there but you were blinded from it. All of a sudden it becomes clear that this thing about her is something that you do not like and maybe it os a deal breaker.
I wish I could, but rarely do. If I've really liked someone I don't even got it in me to move on until it's absolutely drained me.
They change how they are, become homophobic, racist or just stop being fun, having a laugh n having fun is really important.
When he’s all talk no action if you’re gonna promise me the moon and the stars then you better give me the moon and the stars lol they say talk is cheap for a reason 😩💀
The biggest things are their views/interests (like if it's something that doesn't sit well with me). If they're unreliable. And if they're judgmental and constantly scolding me even over the pettiest shit
Being ignored. Personally I hate being ignored. A hug now and then goes a long way.
Learning that I am not as much of a priority as they are to me.
Inconsistency, lies, self-center, closed minded, low effort, and not able to joke/laugh
Lack of similarities in terms of the way they think, views, interests, sense of humor, the way they communicate, goals in life, etc.
Everything from misogyny, homophobia, racism, to a really shitty taste in music and many things in between.
If they are shallow, a liar, if they litter and so on. I have a lot of things that can turn me off.
If she is spoiled, entitled, rude, to much drama, can't hold an intelligent conversation. To name a few.
I don't, I just force myself to move on if I have to.
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