What makes you lose interest in someone?

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Jay-_- · Accepted Answer

when they think they're too good for everyone when in reality their personality is so horrendous that no one even wants to be around them 😂

Starrrboy · Accepted Answer

Inconsistency, not giving the same energy...

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

Well, speaking from the heart, the biggest romance-killer for me is inconsistency. It's that rollercoaster where one day it's lovebombing texts and heart emojis, and the next, it's like you're messaging a ghost. It's all about the vibe, right? If someone starts shifting from hot to cold faster than summer weather in San Francisco, my interest packs its bags and takes a little vacation. Consistency is the secret sauce to keeping the flame alive, and when it's missing, it's a giant red flag waving goodbye to my interest. 😅 Let's keep the connection real and steady!

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LaFemmeFatale_1 · Answer

If they had my interest and I lost it, it means they didn’t show enough interest that was necessary to keep mine.

dragoblack · Answer

When she says all she does is "work and home", when asked about her interests. When she says something insignificant & common a guy does, is an "ick" (such as bicycles, plays videogames, watches anime, knows how to cook... etc.) .
When she obsesses over how much money a guy has (if your focus is how much a guy makes, its a major red flag. If a guy lives alone in his own place, keeps it clean, and all the basics for surviving on his own; that's all you need to know, to know about his financial situation).
Shows obvious signs she just wants a sugardaddy so she can be lazy.
Has unrealistic expectations for a partner.
When she has constant uses subtext to her words (if you can't be honest and straightforward about what you want to tell me, i don't want to deal with you)

Account · Answer

Arrogance, dishonesty, worship of money/material goods, inconsistency, when they display misogynistic, honophobic, transphobic and racist views, never asks you shit and is never curious about you, avoids commitment, he holds you to stricter standards than he holds himself.

sheenagwapa · Answer

i honestly don't think i will like someone who would remind me of my father i don't think i'm into older pips it's just a suspicion though. i believe that the worst thing that you can do to someone is making them feel you love them or tell them you lovecthem when you honestly don't and so it's my number one rulw to never be with someone if i don't romantically like them. but if i'm with you trust me i'm really with you AND NOT USE YOU.

NathanDavis · Answer

she took her jacket off... then I noticed one racist tattoo too many... lol

RavVid · Answer

There is no doubt physical beauty is the primary arousal of interest but niceness is long term maintainer of interest. If I suddenly have evidence she isn't so nice i will suddenly lose all interest.

FreyaRed · Answer

When my imagination about some personality things is disturbed by too many discrepancies of reality. It's never about the optic, but I can't stand some behaviors

exitseven · Answer

Sometimes you can see something about somebody that was always there but you were blinded from it. All of a sudden it becomes clear that this thing about her is something that you do not like and maybe it os a deal breaker.

Xia1994 · Answer

When he’s all talk no action if you’re gonna promise me the moon and the stars then you better give me the moon and the stars lol they say talk is cheap for a reason 😩💀

Valdemort · Answer

I wish I could, but rarely do. If I've really liked someone I don't even got it in me to move on until it's absolutely drained me.

HawkPerception · Answer

Lack of similarities in terms of the way they think, views, interests, sense of humor, the way they communicate, goals in life, etc.

RebelinSteel · Answer

They change how they are, become homophobic, racist or just stop being fun, having a laugh n having fun is really important.

KostasKouvalis · Answer

The biggest things are their views/interests (like if it's something that doesn't sit well with me). If they're unreliable. And if they're judgmental and constantly scolding me even over the pettiest shit

BadApple69 · Answer

Being ignored. Personally I hate being ignored. A hug now and then goes a long way.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Everything from misogyny, homophobia, racism, to a really shitty taste in music and many things in between.

Mikeysoda · Answer

Learning that I am not as much of a priority as they are to me.

bobalife · Answer

Inconsistency, lies, self-center, closed minded, low effort, and not able to joke/laugh

Juxtapose · Answer

If they are shallow, a liar, if they litter and so on. I have a lot of things that can turn me off.

Nerdvana · Answer

If she is spoiled, entitled, rude, to much drama, can't hold an intelligent conversation. To name a few.

DoggyDude · Answer

Them getting married, having children or breaking some taboo that defines myself spiritually (or in fairness discovering they are pretending to be something because they like me vs being themselves).

Skyros · Answer

If it’s a girl I lose interest immediately if I find out she’s gay. I wish I didn’t feel that way, but it is what it is. If a guy told me the same thing it would be a much different story.

Lottydotty · Answer

I don't, I just force myself to move on if I have to.

LiamJHayden · Answer

If we are not having fun together I will lose interest quickly.

handsomelad70 · Answer

If the person is a crashing bore or obnoxious.

LostandFound__x · Answer

Inconsistency

Fuentes · Answer

I'm not a girl I sint just lose interest lol

silyt_ghoest · Answer

not being funny. unfunny people are LOSERS

Gabriel-Chicanito · Answer

When they've 2'faced me./Doesn't have strong shoulders.

TommyMountainFigure · Answer

If they lose respect for me, they lose me!

Lara_Croft · Answer

Sometimes one can get an ick

Dbtr99 · Answer

If they’re rude

laly520 · Answer

lies, when I find out they been lying

Kinkyhubby · Answer

Lying, 2 face, untrustworthy

JHAYES317 · Answer

Lack of empathy for others

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

She's rude or stupid then I will lose interest.

msc545 · Answer

Generally mre time around them does it.

Overandunder89 · Answer

For starters... REDUNDANCY

Texas_Girrrrl30 · Answer

Leaving me on delivered or read for days

Jerre · Answer

Poor personality

dolemite58 · Answer

Bad attitude/personality

dustybiker2 · Answer

Closed mind.

Trekfan68 · Answer

Dishonesty and lack of communication.

Ajink024 · Answer

Lol if they call the police on me

Slim57 · Answer

If they're distant

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