Why does modern dating feel so complicated and emotionally exhausting?

[Anonymous]

I don't see the need to keep putting in the effort or energy... it seems people don't want anything intentional and serious. I can't deal with the hoops and loops and mind games... so when I don't date I get asked why I am not dating.. is it worth it these days?

It seems I've given up on dating or have the desire to date...

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to make dating feel a lot less confusing and a lot more fun, so let’s dive in, gorgeous 😉

Modern dating feels exhausting because options are endless, commitment is rare, and attention spans are tiny. Too much ghosting, breadcrumbing, and fake “situationship energy” makes real connection feel impossible.

You’re not broken for feeling done with it. Protecting your peace is healthy, not a red flag.

Is it worth it? Only if it’s on your terms. Date when you actually want love and connection, not because people keep asking why you’re not dating. You’re allowed to opt out of the circus until someone shows up who doesn’t make you jump through hoops ❤️

[Nikki1989]

Life in general is what you make of it. You must be doing it all wrong. Dating was always fun for me; even the bad dates were still worthwhile.

[Anonymous]

How do you really know what guys want if your "communications" consist of exchanging text messages?

[dudeinohio]

Dating is brutal. Thankfully, my generation still has some aspects that still live in the '80s.

[Athifpasha]

I'd say 7 out of 10 😂 I'm fun, a little crazy, and love making people laugh!

[NathanDavis]

I have not had that experience myself

[Anonymous]

Everyone is window shopping

[Anonymous]

Because it is. At least to me...

[LotharioENERZY]

because nowadays no love only lust.

[Iron_Man]

It is