Do other people find tough, stoic men unattractive in dating?

[Bianca_Italy]

One of the biggest issues I have in dating:

I'm a laidback woman, I look and act laidback, and I'm attracted to people who seem to be as laidback. Most men (especially young men) grow up thinking men should never look even 1% vulnerable, and their toxic mindset leads them to look angry, tough and stoic constantly.

I don't find that attractive in the slightest, it pisses me off before the conversation even starts.

It doesn't matter how good-looking a man is; as soon as I see that ''I'm so tough and macho'' face, I think: ''No, dude, you're not attractive to me, that face just makes me want to punch you.''

[Laws-Of-Existence]

If men don't want to be vulnerable with you, you are the common denominator. ㅤ

[Anonymous]

I used to be a lesbian. I found dealing with stoic masculine men in a relationship to be dating on easy mode. Im married with kids now.

Give you an example. With my ex girlfriends when I had a problem or we didn't to get something done sure they were all willing to have a conversation about it and empathise while my husband will just go and sort it straight away with barely a word said about it.

The men i dated were less manipulative, less violent, less controlling, less abusive, less spiteful.

[DryGermanGuy]

Being stoic has little to nothing to do with being angry or tough or macho.

[Anonymous]

I don’t know what you mean by ”tough and macho” face or ”tough and stoic”.

[Anonymous]

I’m a straight man. I can’t answer your question

[Bricealan]

@Bianca_Italy I agree

[Ariesman81Nshiiit]

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