Do you think that men who don't behave in a masculine way, are very unattractive?

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Don't you think men who don't behave masculine are very unattractive?

Ladsin2 · Accepted Answer

I'm not attracted to men. I find effeminate men strange though.

Jerre · Accepted Answer

No opinion other than let the man and his SO decide.

EzraIsShy76028 · Answer

In general I'm someone who really dislikes gender roles of any kind, so...

I say just let people be themselves as long as they're not hurting anyone. May sound cliche but just live and let live.

So let feminine men and masculine women just be themselves, if that's who they actually truly are and they're not just forcing a fake persona to be different than the expected norm.

As for me personally myself, I don't really like to put labels on myself but I guess I just see myself as a perfect 50/50 combination of feminine and masculine, not leaning too strongly on either side.

mstbooblover · Answer

This may depend on what you mean with non masculine behaviour, and who and in what circumstances you mean this to occur. Setting aside the homosexual side of some people, many women, but far from all, want men to behave in a primitive aggressive way, which give them the illusion of having found some protector. This reminds me of male sexual criminals getting regularly love letters from women... Certainly worth a social study.

Attractivity on the other hand is another topic. People can be attractive in many different ways, according taste, tendency and as always, circumstances.

RavVid · Answer

Yes in the same way that women who don't behave in a feminine way are unattractive. More, I think we find it semi-offensive.

I saw a video of an interview of the coordinator of white dudes for harris and a com mentor made the remark that that should shift white dudes, black dudes and hispanic dudes over to the Trump camp.

PetLover24 · Answer

What's "behave masculine" mean?

If you ask decent women who come from good upbringings they'd say holding open doors, having manners, being respectable and respectful, etc.

If you ask cheap women who come from broken families and lower income settings it'd be thugs, criminals, men with anger issues, etc.

blueonblack22 · Answer

This depends on what women define as “masculine”. At 16 your probably have a different definition of that vs. a 36 year old woman. Chances are you define “masculine life as aggressive criminally prone bad boys at your age.

The bigger problem is women expect men to magically time acting masculine vs acting sensitive to a woman’s feelings at the perfect moment.

Radiate143 · Answer

If you mean by masculinity words matching actions and taking accountability then yes, men who don't do this are sickening. If you mean masculinity by be loud and abrasive then no, this is a turn off. If you mean not masculine by reserved or soft spoken then there's nothing wrong with that.

SweetPi · Answer

Depends a lot of guys go overly masculine and are huge jerks! 😒 Which is happening in so many cultures and encouraged.  So need a guy who can relax and do things with me like shopping!

hippio · Answer

I like the way you guys create stereotypes for men, don’t mind calling some type unattractive and irrelevant, then cry about their toxic and narcissistic behavior. Pull a victim card every single time when a man calls a woman unattractive and rejects her. You’re simply sexualizing yourself by saying that woman love masculine man who will simply show you the way to kitchen and behave rudely with you

FreyaRed · Answer

It doesn't take long to estimate man's attractiveness. Ergo: it's not connected with his behavior, just with looks. Maybe some specific type of men who appeal to some women like former actor Belmondo who was considered to be the worst looking Chad, can impress with masculinity but looks has always higher value

glennos89 · Answer

Although you probably need advice from other woman, I still want to let you know that you have a point! They are unattractive! Same about girls who behave masculine, they also are very unattractive

Julie4 · Answer

Personally I'm not attracted to effeminate men, for a relationship I mean. But then that's their life, it's none of my business and I don't judge.

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

No, I've seen a feminine men dance the women's part better than actual women. It's pretty cool. Am I attracted to such a man? No, but that doesn't make them generally unattractive to others.

anonguys · Answer

Everyone’s opinion is different of course, but society puts way too much pressure on both men and women to fall within the box of being either masculine or feminine. Which I believe causes a lot of people to not be themselves in order to fit in to those categories. Nobody has to be 100% masculine or feminine, and nobody is. So my answer would be no, it is not unattractive.

jshm2 · Answer

Depends how you define "masculine" If you mean beats up his wife daily, and then his mistress as well when drunk, then no. That shit is whack.

WintersDaughter · Answer

Yes. I'm attracted to men. Men are naturally a little feminine, like how women are a little masculine, but to be overly feminine is very unattractive.

abc3643 · Answer

What does that mean to "behave masculine"? At the same time, what does it mean to "behave feminine"?

kellytheman · Answer

I think some girls like sensitive guys but I think most girls what a masculine man so they feel protected and someone in charge. Girls like seeing a man confident and his masculine nature coming out with a situation comes up.

LadyKitty · Answer

No because I don't attribute traits or behavior to gender.

Maybe_Maybe_not · Answer

I'm surprised by how you adopt a trolling stance and sometimes not, this is intriguing

ProbablyClueless · Answer

I don't find men sexually appealing in general, but I find that effeminate men in particular give me the ick.

Juxtapose · Answer

It's actually a lot more attractive when people are true to themselves instead of falling some bullshit preset behavior like you're a machine being preprogrammed.

LiamJHayden · Answer

What is the context? Hand me a kitten or puppy I am very soft. Show me a criminal mugging an elderly person and I see red.

Ironic_Method · Answer

People should be themselves, they don't exist to please every judgmental person that doesn't agree with their behavior.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Not that I know of. What does how they act have to do with how they look?

Still-alive · Answer

the fake account at their usual homophobic propaganda...

Yuvan_indian021 · Answer

An Individual who is born male and doesn't behave masculinely should not be called men, as it is an insult to masculinity itself.

Anonymous · Answer

not even unmasculine men want to hang other unmasculine men

Anonymous · Answer

I don't really care. A guy can act what's comfortable to him. Others approval of it is neither wanted nor asked for. 👍

Fistiklidondurma27 · Answer

They are unattractive I would date a woman instead

luvstoned4him · Answer

In some ways, yes

Babygirl_S · Answer

They seem to be gay

SherryBomb · Answer

I find them attractive. Cheers.

Crazzyyworld · Answer

I would say he is just average

WhitneySnow · Answer

No..

Reijen · Answer

All depends on the woman's preference.

MasterKS · Answer

Man should be act Man!

jojouzumaki · Answer

Not at all.

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