I'm not attracted to men. I find effeminate men strange though.
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Ladsin... you're back...
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@Laura_Marx Allegedly
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and you haven't changed at all...
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@Laura_Marx I think I've changed quite a lot. But maybe other's have a clearer view.
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what's different about you? don't take my assessment too seriously; i've read one comment by you.
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@Laura_Marx I'd have to know what your perception of me was prior. In many ways I'm the same, in many ways I'm different. Biggest that sticks out to me is politics. I used to be somewhat communist, now I'm much more conservative.
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interesting... we had a strange relationship to one another back in the day, i don't know if you remember me at all. i might have been using a blue profile. i thought you were a lunatic... one day you apologized to me and i hope i was kind about it... i don't remember any more than that.
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@Laura_Marx lol I apologized? That doesn't sound like me XD
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No opinion other than let the man and his SO decide.
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@Melanie31 Thank you for the MHO.
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1 yIn general I'm someone who really dislikes gender roles of any kind, so...
I say just let people be themselves as long as they're not hurting anyone. May sound cliche but just live and let live.
So let feminine men and masculine women just be themselves, if that's who they actually truly are and they're not just forcing a fake persona to be different than the expected norm.
As for me personally myself, I don't really like to put labels on myself but I guess I just see myself as a perfect 50/50 combination of feminine and masculine, not leaning too strongly on either side.
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1 yThis may depend on what you mean with non masculine behaviour, and who and in what circumstances you mean this to occur. Setting aside the homosexual side of some people, many women, but far from all, want men to behave in a primitive aggressive way, which give them the illusion of having found some protector. This reminds me of male sexual criminals getting regularly love letters from women... Certainly worth a social study.
Attractivity on the other hand is another topic. People can be attractive in many different ways, according taste, tendency and as always, circumstances.
10 Reply1.2K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. Yes in the same way that women who don't behave in a feminine way are unattractive. More, I think we find it semi-offensive.
I saw a video of an interview of the coordinator of white dudes for harris and a com mentor made the remark that that should shift white dudes, black dudes and hispanic dudes over to the Trump camp.
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1 yWhat's "behave masculine" mean?
If you ask decent women who come from good upbringings they'd say holding open doors, having manners, being respectable and respectful, etc.
If you ask cheap women who come from broken families and lower income settings it'd be thugs, criminals, men with anger issues, etc.
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And that's pretty much statistically proven. Ask any cop or medical professional and they'd say the average woman who lacks self respect or is from the slums / low incomes gets involves with a thug, criminal, anger issues, etc. and thinks loser-man is the best thing available.
1 yThis depends on what women define as “masculine”. At 16 your probably have a different definition of that vs. a 36 year old woman. Chances are you define “masculine life as aggressive criminally prone bad boys at your age.
The bigger problem is women expect men to magically time acting masculine vs acting sensitive to a woman’s feelings at the perfect moment.
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1 yIf you mean by masculinity words matching actions and taking accountability then yes, men who don't do this are sickening. If you mean masculinity by be loud and abrasive then no, this is a turn off. If you mean not masculine by reserved or soft spoken then there's nothing wrong with that.
12 ReplyJust to clarify: You do find soft spoken men attractive?
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@Christian_Cartier oh absolutely 😍. I have a crush on one right now. Not sure if he likes me back though. Maybe you can help me figure it out? 😅
Depends a lot of guys go overly masculine and are huge jerks! 😒 Which is happening in so many cultures and encouraged.
So need a guy who can relax and do things with me like shopping!
41 ReplyI like the way you guys create stereotypes for men, don’t mind calling some type unattractive and irrelevant, then cry about their toxic and narcissistic behavior. Pull a victim card every single time when a man calls a woman unattractive and rejects her. You’re simply sexualizing yourself by saying that woman love masculine man who will simply show you the way to kitchen and behave rudely with you
20 ReplyIt doesn't take long to estimate man's attractiveness. Ergo: it's not connected with his behavior, just with looks. Maybe some specific type of men who appeal to some women like former actor Belmondo who was considered to be the worst looking Chad, can impress with masculinity but looks has always higher value
00 Reply414 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. Although you probably need advice from other woman, I still want to let you know that you have a point! They are unattractive! Same about girls who behave masculine, they also are very unattractive
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Personally I'm not attracted to effeminate men, for a relationship I mean.
But then that's their life, it's none of my business and I don't judge.20 Reply- 593 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.
1 yNo, I've seen a feminine men dance the women's part better than actual women. It's pretty cool. Am I attracted to such a man? No, but that doesn't make them generally unattractive to others.
30 Reply Everyone’s opinion is different of course, but society puts way too much pressure on both men and women to fall within the box of being either masculine or feminine. Which I believe causes a lot of people to not be themselves in order to fit in to those categories. Nobody has to be 100% masculine or feminine, and nobody is. So my answer would be no, it is not unattractive.
10 Reply920 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. Depends how you define "masculine" If you mean beats up his wife daily, and then his mistress as well when drunk, then no. That shit is whack.
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1 yYes. I'm attracted to men. Men are naturally a little feminine, like how women are a little masculine, but to be overly feminine is very unattractive.
10 Reply3.1K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. What does that mean to "behave masculine"?
At the same time, what does it mean to "behave feminine"?10 Reply
1 yI think some girls like sensitive guys but I think most girls what a masculine man so they feel protected and someone in charge. Girls like seeing a man confident and his masculine nature coming out with a situation comes up.
10 ReplyNo because I don't attribute traits or behavior to gender.
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m 1 yI'm surprised by how you adopt a trolling stance and sometimes not, this is intriguing
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1 yI don't find men sexually appealing in general, but I find that effeminate men in particular give me the ick.
10 Reply 1.5K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. It's actually a lot more attractive when people are true to themselves instead of falling some bullshit preset behavior like you're a machine being preprogrammed.
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1 yWhat is the context? Hand me a kitten or puppy I am very soft. Show me a criminal mugging an elderly person and I see red.
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1 yPeople should be themselves, they don't exist to please every judgmental person that doesn't agree with their behavior.
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1 yNot that I know of. What does how they act have to do with how they look?
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1 ythe fake account at their usual homophobic propaganda...
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1 yAn Individual who is born male and doesn't behave masculinely should not be called men, as it is an insult to masculinity itself.
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Anonymous(25-29)1 ynot even unmasculine men want to hang other unmasculine men
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Anonymous(45 Plus)1 yI don't really care. A guy can act what's comfortable to him. Others approval of it is neither wanted nor asked for. 👍
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1 yThey are unattractive I would date a woman instead
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1 yIn some ways, yes
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Which ways?
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@ThinkerShell like from my experience , those men then to not be assertive in important matters and I always end up doing everything and making all the decisions etc. Its a turn off
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And in what other ways you find them attractive?
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@ThinkerShell what I wrote above was what I found ***unattractive
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You said in some ways you find them unatracrive
And explained why when i asked
Then the second time i asked so in what other ways you fond them atteactive? - 1 y
@ThinkerShell their easy going demeanor and also the fact that I think they connect with me more on emotional level
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More than masculine men?
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@ThinkerShell in general.. yes
1 yThey seem to be gay
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1 yI find them attractive. Cheers.
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1 yI would say he is just average
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1 yNo..
30 Reply All depends on the woman's preference.
10 Reply464 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. Man should be act Man!
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1 yNot at all.
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