Talking phase with a long distance girl?

[Anonymous]

How often should i spend time trying to hang out with girl if it's long distance without over smothering or boring them. Also should I instantly reply to messages all the time or give it time before replying. I've spent over a week non stop hanging out with a girl and im afraid of scaring her away when asking to hang so much

[ManOnFire]

As long as she's cool with it then I don't see an issue. Long distance can become a strain though, assuming this is your or her first time in that kind of thing. Sometimes you be the one to try to hang out with her and then other times let her be the one.

I personally wouldn't instantly respond to everything all the time because it does give the impression that you're not doing anything else with your time but staying on your phone or at least always being available to answer her. Doesn't hurt to let 30 minutes or an hour go by before you reply, depending on how urgent she needs a response.

[queenofcardio]

You can match her communication level if you're unsure.

[Anonymous]

Whatever works for both of you.