Hey everyone,
I’ve been in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend for around a year now, we’ve seen each other in real life a few times and we used to call every day and talk all the time, she would always text or call me when she was drunk and it was just all very amazing. Then I went to a clinic for 10 weeks to work on myself, and we couldn’t really talk to each other much except dor weekly letters. When I came back everything was different. The first weeks we rang from time to time but now we don’t anymore. We barely text and sometimes she doesn't reply for a day or longer. She sometimes texts back and when I tell her I love her she says it back from time to time and when I tell her I miss her same thing. She never says it on her own anymore and she said its because she has her viva for her phd soon and doesn't have an own room rn so she's staying with friends and always with people and she says its just too much and she's done with people and just doesn't want to talk to anyone until she's done with her phd including me sometimes. But she is with friends a lot and goes to bbqs and stuff and still gets drunk and probably has a lot of fun with them so I just dont know what happened, it feels like she’s losing interest or doesn’t want to talk or be with me anymore, and that might just be my thoughts but it scares me. She is coming over in 2 weeks for one week, but I’m afraid that might be the end or something, I don't know. I guess I just miss her a lot and I wanted some outside perspective in this, so I was wondering what you all think.
I really love her and I don’t want us to end, and her viva is in 2 weeks aswel so I’m kind of trying to just hold on till then, and rn I’m trying to not text her and see how long it’ll take until she texts me, but I want to text her so bad :/
I’ve been in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend for around a year now, we’ve seen each other in real life a few times and we used to call every day and talk all the time, she would always text or call me when she was drunk and it was just all very amazing. Then I went to a clinic for 10 weeks to work on myself, and we couldn’t really talk to each other much except dor weekly letters. When I came back everything was different. The first weeks we rang from time to time but now we don’t anymore. We barely text and sometimes she doesn't reply for a day or longer. She sometimes texts back and when I tell her I love her she says it back from time to time and when I tell her I miss her same thing. She never says it on her own anymore and she said its because she has her viva for her phd soon and doesn't have an own room rn so she's staying with friends and always with people and she says its just too much and she's done with people and just doesn't want to talk to anyone until she's done with her phd including me sometimes. But she is with friends a lot and goes to bbqs and stuff and still gets drunk and probably has a lot of fun with them so I just dont know what happened, it feels like she’s losing interest or doesn’t want to talk or be with me anymore, and that might just be my thoughts but it scares me. She is coming over in 2 weeks for one week, but I’m afraid that might be the end or something, I don't know. I guess I just miss her a lot and I wanted some outside perspective in this, so I was wondering what you all think.
I really love her and I don’t want us to end, and her viva is in 2 weeks aswel so I’m kind of trying to just hold on till then, and rn I’m trying to not text her and see how long it’ll take until she texts me, but I want to text her so bad :/
