Have you ever asked a first date out for drinks or dinner and they ghosted you and you were left by yourself at the restaurant?

[sage2021]

How did you handle the situation?
I think that is so rude.
Or has anyone ever been 45 minutes late to meet you at a restaurant on the first date?
That's also rude.
Some people think that they are entitled and treat people so bad.

[dudeinohio]

Been there. They didn't get another chance.

[AgentG111]

Yes, had an amazing dinner and dessert.

[Genie23]

That never happened, because I get very shy when I'm interested in someone. So, I never approached because I would get nervous to even look into his eyes and not get shy/awkward 😅 But I'd be really upset if someone ghosted or kept me waiting for a long time. It doesn't take much to inform that you'll be late... or even if you changed your mind, it's okay. Just call and say it. Don't keep anyone waiting.

I hope they apologised if someone did that to you, Sage.

[sage2021]

Genie23

No 🙂‍↔️ it didn't happen to me.

I got the idea for the question from a video I watched, and one guy was totally ghosted, the other one, the chick was 45 minutes late.

[Genie23]

Thank goodness! So glad to hear that. 😊 I think that's really inconsiderate. It's basic human decency to inform. But oh well. 🫤

[Sal_Monella]

5-10 minutes late is traffic and parking. 45 minutes is disrespect,

[Fromdusktilldawn]

yea happened a lot, also with friends, though if I'm hungry I'll just stay and enjoy it myself. Sometimes if I wanna go somewhere I dont even bother asking someone to come

[TonyMetal___1986]

Nope never, especially that i have rarely dated someome, you can count them on your fingers...

[robocop666]

thats normal so go somewhere where you can read a book and look normal.

[sage2021]

@robocop666

I wouldn't go so far as to say that it's "normal" because if you make a date with someone, don't they usually show up? 🤷🏼‍♀️

[robocop666]

no this is common

[sage2021]

robocop666

Well, if that's the case, I wouldn't even set it up. That's terrible to treat someone like that.

[robocop666]

women do this often every guy experienced this.

[eagle1951]

that one has never happened to me thank goodness

[queenofcardio]

Never been in that situation

[Paige2006]

No I haven't