I'm flying to meet someone that I've been talking to for about 4 months now, I'm spending the week with him, I'm 18 he's 19 , I'm worried cause I'm a pretty anxious person. But we've talked constantly for those four months through texting, calling, skyping, every way there is too talk we have. I've met one friend, who I'm close with , and another he is no longer friends with and I've talked to others through texting. I'm so worried something could possibly go wrong, when there's no signs that should make me worry.. Any calming words for this anxious girl LOL
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I wish you well in developing this relationship because I know online love can and does work ...
I would feel much more secure in if he would be traveling to meet you - not the way this is happening. You're going somewhere where you have no-one you know who you can turn to if things go wrong. You will be on his home ground where you have no idea what awaits you. You need to meet him ON YOUR GROUND first. HE NEEDS TO COME TO SEE YOU! If he will not agree to that then he is not what he seems.
If you do go, Take a friend with you. Get an address of where you will be. Do a property check for that address to make sure the owner is who he says it is (local county courthouse records for that area will have the information). Let local police know when you will be arriving and give your family/friends contact information, including the contact info for the local police. And ALWAYS, ALWAYS, ALWAYS have a fully charged cell phone that you can use if you need to, and NEVER give it to him. Better still, don't even let him know you have it.
My final thought ... PLEASE do not make this trip. Ask him to make the trip to see you. If he won't do that, as I've said, he is not who you think he is. Whatever you do, please keep yourself safe.