I had a misunderstanding with someone, and what could've been easily resolved has turned into 6 months of me receiving cold silence, unanswered texts, being blown off and unanswered questions. I had to give myself closure, but the scar will remain. I sent my last text recently just wishing him well and subtly letting him know that its noted that we won't see each other again. Though, of course I can't see the future, but sometimes the heart just knows. It wasn't an emotionally charged message, but very calm and mature as always. I ended the message letting him know that our hearts are like signed yearbooks, and we've both left our signatures on each others heart. I told him I loved him and I said goodbye. He never replied. Though, I didn't expect him to.
I asked him months ago if this was goodbye, and spent so much time to get him to place a finality on whatever we had and he ignored me, but passively tweeted "He won't take the bait anymore. Your wasting your time. And I promise I'm that same kid you thought you knew. Stubborn as they come, and only time can change me."
Prior to us falling off this last time, we got into a heated discussion because he told me that he was sorry I was hurt, but we couldn't talk. I demanded he say goodbye, tell me its forever and he impulsively did. He regretted it because a month later we were back talking and he told me we were friends and that it was a good balance for us.
Guys and girls, have you ever sacrificed a relationship and allowed your pride to win?
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