You won't regret it if it makes you happy. Not everyone wants to get married and they are fine with it and don't regret it. Others need to be with someone so bad they will completely change everything about themselves to be with someone, anyone. I don't need some to make me happy, only I have the power to do that and if I never remarry I don't really care. I have a great guy right now but if it doesn't work out, ce la vie. I will not regret anything. You only live once and only you can make your happy if you don't find anyone who does not love you for you then so what. Sure it's nice to have someone but look at how many unhealthy relationships there are out there and how many people are making each other miserable, they will be looking at you and wishing they had your freedom. You might regret it, you might not. There is no way to tell.
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You will regret it.
It only gets harder and worse the older you get because other people continue to develop their social skills.
Maybe you are approaching women the wrong way
Or maybe you are approaching the wrong women
There are nerdy and quiet shy females in college
Sorry, but that really is where you should start, with people who have the same social challenges that you do.
Go hang out with your nerd group and get accepted with them. It's okay to be a nerd.
Nikola Tesla made the very same decision (in fact, he died a virgin) and look how at how much stuff he got done. If you would ask him, I'm sure he'd say he does not regret his decision.
You can always change your mind later. Sometimes I say to myself it would be nice to have a relationship, other times I am glad as ever that I don't have to put up with the problems many relationships have.
If you're gonna approach women, last thing you'll want to do is have that mindset you're describing there because you're setting yourself up for that outcome. I can understand not feeling like going through all the work of getting to know yet another women that will waste your time and such(I've met plenty of time wasters myself, trust me), but it looks like your confidence is just shot right now.
that's worked for me. assume all women will find you disgusting. Assume all women will reject you. You can go through life liberated and celibate. Never have to spend your money trying to make a woman happy. You can invest money you would spend on dates, and not squander on women, and retire as a young man. Let the other guys try to impress women, you can build a future for yourself.
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u need to ask yourself what do you have to offer to a future girlfriend or wife?
when you finally find out what it is then make that shine to your up most potential
Dude you gotta have some faith that everything will turn out just fine.
I feel that you will regret this decision. I am attracted to nerdy shy guys actually. There is someone out there for you. Don't give up! It will come in time, you may have to go over some of the speed bumps to get there.
well girls do like guys who are all " ohh poor me " all the time its annoying but if you really don't want a relationship its your choice
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