Should I be dating to marry and not dating to get laid?

[Anonymous]

Lokey new to the whole dating scene but I’m getting better and learning more through trial and error.

[Oliverlogan263]

Yo, that's a tricky situation, bro. There's no easy answer when it comes to dating and relationships. It really comes down to what you're looking for and what's important to you.

On one hand, dating with the intention of finding a long-term partner and potential marriage is a really respectable approach. If that's your endgame, then focusing your efforts on finding someone compatible for that kind of commitment makes total sense. You don't want to waste your time just hooking up if your goal is to eventually settle down.

But at the same time, there's nothing wrong with wanting to have a more casual dating life and just focus on having fun for now. As long as you're being upfront about your intentions, there's no shame in just wanting to meet new people and experience different connections without the pressure of marriage looming over it.

Ultimately, it comes down to being true to yourself and what you really want. There's no one-size-fits-all approach to dating. The key is figuring out what's most important to you - long-term commitment or short-term enjoyment - and then pursuing that in an honest way.

Whatever you decide, just make sure you communicate that clearly to anyone you're dating. That way, there's no confusion or false expectations. Be upfront about what you're looking for, so you can find people who are on the same page.

And don't be afraid to adjust your approach as you go. You're still learning the ropes, so give yourself room to figure out what works best for you. The most important thing is staying true to yourself and your goals.

Does that make sense, bro? Let me know if you need any other advice on navigating the dating world. I'm here to help however I can!

[Anonymous]

I would date to get laid and if marriage happs to evolve from that then so be it. This isn't 1950. Women are not out to marry anymore

[Asker]

It seems like every girl I go out with wants a relationship and I just want to have fun I don't know it’s kinda annoying

[Opinion Owner]

I have the reverse problem. Must be the differences in age.

[Anonymous]

lol aren’t u that guy who wanted to use women to get rid of your virginity and have a first relationship. lol. Now u wanna marry?

[Summeroflove]

If you want to find someone to marry whose a genuine good woman then you shouldn’t be having casuals. You can’t have your cake and eat it too buckaroo many people try that and it never works well for them.

Number one women who are looking for something serious will walk away from casual relationships when they see that’s what someone’s wanting. Number two is the fact that there is a risk of getting a STD when you have a high body count sleeping with others who have high body counts the risk of contracting something or another is high.

The next major thing is getting someone president. Many people in casuals end up knocking someone up or for women getting knocked up by someone. Either people become single parents, paying child support, or even raising the kid (s) sometimes to multiple different people. The other thing that happens is people just decide to marry one another. Even if it’s someone they barely know they end up getting married and again many times it doesn’t end well.

Getting laid is easy unless you’re ugly but building genuine relationships with the right people takes effort. It takes some trial and error ruling certain people out. It takes work by both partners to love one another, communicate, build a relationship, build a bond, stay loyal, and everything else.

Yes, if you’re rich or something you may attract gold diggers who many won’t be honest about what they’re wanting from you and will pretend to be someone they’re not. If they can use you for money, social status, and the list goes on. But you’re being played like a fiddle.

If someone wants real relationships they need to stop hooking up with any snake in the dirt that will let them.

[Nikki1989]

Still not getting any, huh?

[Asker]

U wish. Just looking for a girlfriend not a new girl every week

[ChicoFromThe305]

Yep pretty much