I do a form of martial arts and we spar a lot in class. There are definitely people in class who are better than me but apparently I'm a pretty good fighter and I guess some guys in class are afraid to fight me for some reason. I'm afraid that that might be a big reason why guys don't ask me out :( I'm sort of on the smaller side and don't really look like I could hurt anyone so most guys I know are kind of surprised when they find out I do martial arts. Why do a lot of guys say they don't like girls who can beat them up? Would you date or like a girl that could probably beat you up? Why or why not?
Btw, I'm only a sophomore in high school so the guys I'm talking about would be my age, so they're not all huge dudes. That's why I could probably beat up some of the guys I know. So basically I guess if you were a high school aged boy (and most of them are definitely not as big as adults) would you still like a girl if she could fight you hard?