I’m a fairly average guy, smaller build, nerdy I guess but in a way that I never had trouble
attracting women. Still, nearly every girlfriend I was with was stronger and tougher. If we
play wrestled, we quickly realized she would kick my ass. Most were physically stronger
too, like if we were moving furniture or something. Most say it isn’t a problem but I’m left
wondering why relationships end for no apparent reason or I get ghosted. I had an honest
female friend tell me that even though it’s 2021 and most women consider themselves
feminists, they still would like a guy to be able to protect them instead of the other way
around.
I actually really liberal, feminist girlfriend who is the last person I thought would have
a problem and she told me she was tired of hearing a noise at night that could be a burglar
or walking in the city late at night and realizing that if anything happened, she would be
realistically much better at defending us than I would. She’d roll her eyes when I helped
her move furniture and she could lift heavier and for longer. The one girlfriend who did not care at
all was a tiny Asian, but then she was actually stronger and tougher than most guys, not just
me! She didn’t look it either, it was like she had superpowers or something! Actually there was one other who said she never had to worry about me being abusive to her because she had been in a relationship like that inthe past.
Anyway, wondering if the guy NEEDS to be the strongest and toughest in the relationship in
2021? Do YOU care? Maybe I am just meeting the wrong people.
attracting women. Still, nearly every girlfriend I was with was stronger and tougher. If we
play wrestled, we quickly realized she would kick my ass. Most were physically stronger
too, like if we were moving furniture or something. Most say it isn’t a problem but I’m left
wondering why relationships end for no apparent reason or I get ghosted. I had an honest
female friend tell me that even though it’s 2021 and most women consider themselves
feminists, they still would like a guy to be able to protect them instead of the other way
around.
I actually really liberal, feminist girlfriend who is the last person I thought would have
a problem and she told me she was tired of hearing a noise at night that could be a burglar
or walking in the city late at night and realizing that if anything happened, she would be
realistically much better at defending us than I would. She’d roll her eyes when I helped
her move furniture and she could lift heavier and for longer. The one girlfriend who did not care at
all was a tiny Asian, but then she was actually stronger and tougher than most guys, not just
me! She didn’t look it either, it was like she had superpowers or something! Actually there was one other who said she never had to worry about me being abusive to her because she had been in a relationship like that inthe past.
Anyway, wondering if the guy NEEDS to be the strongest and toughest in the relationship in
2021? Do YOU care? Maybe I am just meeting the wrong people.
