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I voted Asian (female). Because:
They are far less contaminated by Feminist politics. They don't view themselves as oppressed and are not looking "to get even". Instead, they celebrate authentic femininity.
Culturally they tend toward a strong work ethic, proudly profess domestic skills, tend toward child and family advocacy and retain religiosity whether Christian or Eastern.
My perception is their sexuality tends to be both uninhibited and not encumbered by the psychodrama of Western women. In marriage particularly, they still see it as their duty.
I prefer the petite architecture of most Asian women as opposed to the curviness of Beyonce or Kim K. I like their luxuriant black hair (even down below) and youthful, athletic look even in their 50's. I find them "hotter" sexually and it shows in my performance.
There are whites, blacks and Latinas who are just as good but those are relatively rare. Mostly you have to wade through too much angst, anger, blubber, ego and attitude and, quite frankly, I do not have the time or inclination to separate a little grain from all the chaff and self-styled and useless Cosmogirls.156 Reply- +1 y
Good answer for your opinion but I have to keep it honest Asians just are not independent woman they are very reliable in there significant other and it's not attractive their hygiene just is not lady like there not very woman at all in many ways
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Hispanic. They tend to be the most devoted, caring, attractive, and feminine out of all the races. They also know how to carry themselves and look gorgeous, more so than the other races.
They are also FIERCELY loyal to their men. I have seen many a Latina throw down for their man's honor. It can be scary at times!
Why I don't like the other ones as much:
I have found Asians to be too snobby and cold. Unless you make six figures or are insanely smart, they won't look at you. I would place Filipinas as the exception to this rule.
Whites are often crazy and opposed to dating darker people like me.
Blacks aren't attractive to me. They are also often too loud for my taste.
Remember, this is my opinion based on extensive personal experience. I am NOT racist. I hate everyone equally!913 Reply- +1 y
"I have found Asians to be too snobby and cold. Unless you make six figures or are insanely smart, they won't look at you. " -- You sir, are more correct than I think you know.
I was just speaking to my brother regarding Latina women. I was telling him either they aren't attracted to me, or they're the only girls I've ever known not to REALLY flirt with their eyes. They are definitely faithful to their men, and don't put themselves out there. - +1 y
Wish I lived in the Americas just so I could date a Latina lol...
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I am black and not loud. I know sometimes I think black Americans can get loud and I hate their accents but I doubt all black Americans are loud so I don't use the bad to judge everyone. But I do know what you mean though because I couldn't see myself dating a Hispanic guy either.
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"I'm actually Asian myself." -- Ah, that explains it. I have lots of Asian friends, and yeah.. Even they agree with this.
And I'm sorry, "generalization" or not, Black people are loud. Of course every single Black person on this planet entire planet isn't loud. But a large proportion, yes.. - +1 y
I should add two new categories as well. Russian girls are good to look at but are snobs as well. They have expensive taste and expect things that are impossible to achieve without an insanely fat wallet.
Persian girls deserve a mention as well they are very prevalent here in LA. In my experience, they take arrogance and materialism to an entirely different level more than the Russians. The Russians will be nice to you as friends but Persian girls are disrespectful and rude. Not worth it. - +1 y
Yes I am speaking of black Americans specifically. However, Africans that move to America sometimes pick up the traits of black Americans. As far as physical appearance, it is rare that I am attracted to black women. Once in a blue moon, I will see a black girl that is absolutely stunning to me. That is rare though.
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i'm black and I have to say that's a silly argument. the main reason you and shooter-mcgavin won't date black women is because their loud? honestly unless you both have been all over the world and have been around or have met a lot of different black women you don't have the right to make that statment. now even half of the black I've met any where were "loud". I understand this is your opinion however keep in mind if it's wrong or off then you'll be offending people for no reason.
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now I will agree with you about Asian girls, when I lived on the North-East I met and was around a lot of Asian chicks and all of them with thee exception of "0" were cold as hell. they didn't talk to you, look at you, say hi in the hall ways, pass you the ball, say "bless you" if you sneezed nothin... well actually now that I think about it I did meet one Asian chick that liked me and MAN... she was hot! however, they only really seemed to be into white guys with money and smart Asian boys.
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i voted E cause I was offended by their not being a mixed person option:P
i usually date white guys but I've dated a few Asian guys and one Latino.
sooo basically doesn't matter to me, except I haven't dated a blk guy and probably wont.
i love everyone though(:36 Reply- +1 y
Lol I noticed that. Must either be from blk guys who think I should date them or just people who hate interracial relationships either way it's whatever too me(:
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Is that a wig you're wearing...or is that your real hair?
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That's my hairr(:
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like I have quite a few black male friends, that I have been friends with for years. I love black guys I just am not interested in them romantically.
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Being completely honest, I've found myself attracted to anything but black. I don't know why. I just haven't been attracted to really dark guys. But I prefer Latino or white if you want an actual preference.
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Most people on here are white and from Europe or Canada, so 'white' will win..it didn't even need to be asked
I'm biracial so I did click E, because well, who am I to discriminate?1511 Reply- +1 y
I don't know about that, loads of Europeans fancy asians.
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There are so many people here that aren't white and most of those people date within their race anyways.
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most American women are shallow and materialistic. Most Asians don't worship white men or kiss their ass...
American women drove white men to learn and appreciate the qualities of Asian women. Most Asian women...well...you would never know...since you are not one or will you ever date one. - +1 y
Seems like I offended someone. Believe what you want...
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No, it's what you believe. I said they are UNDER the impression. The guys on here use Asian women(and sometimes Latina women) as second choices. The guys on here have major character flaws and refuse to approach women out of fear. They're UNDER THE IMPRESSION that Asian women will worship them and kiss their ass because Asian women are by stereotype, submissive and desperate to marry white men.
If these dudes on here can't approach American women, how can they approach "submissive" women?lulz








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2K opinions shared on Dating topic. I don't have a preference on race, as evidenced by the wide range of racial backgrounds of the women I've dated.
I *do* have a preference for culture, though. I only date middle-class girls, because that's the lifestyle that I lead and that's what I'm comfortable with. I don't have the money, or the tastes, to live a true upper-class lifestyle, but I value intelligence and ambition (and self-responsibility), and probably wouldn't find that easily in a lower-class girl.63 Reply- +1 y
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but I thought quagmire bangs everything?
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Anything with a pulse. I'm so ugly when I was visiting Africa, there were a group of girls from the tribe of Khoisan, a Bushmen Village in South Africa. They all started pointing at me, then they would giggle then spit on the ground. I don't think that was a good thing.
I eventually got enough confidence to ask one of the girls to the "Sacrafice to the Gods" dance that night but the chief later ordered me to leave the tribe immediately or I would be the sacrifice.True story
So for me it does not matter what race she comes from. Except for the girls from Khoisan, a Bushmen Village in South Africa.93 Reply- +1 y
Lmao
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I've dated them all before and it really just depends on the persons personality, I was just lucky that they were all very sweet and caring for me :).
Beautiful blue eyes are a turn on for me though so, that's why I dated more white girls then others.
But I think the best types are the ones that are mixed, my last girlfriend had a Chinese dad and a Dutch mum. For me she was the most amazing girl I was ever been with.
She had blue eyes and black hair lol. But anyways I think it just depends on the person ;)50 Reply wow, the polls don't lie hahaha. It doesn't surprise me much, because I've seen the polls for this kind of question many times on a couple of sites and it's almost always the same.
I have a multiracial background , but look mostly Asian. When I used to date, I dated all races and sizes, from white, black, asian, Indian, Latina's and mixed girls, they were all cool.
Asian guys always get the short end of the stick , when it comes to the dating game haha.
This generalization really doesn't bother me that much or many other Asian guys, because we know it's just numbers and just laugh at it. In the end when a the girl does choose for us, we know that she will get a great guy and life partner. :)40 Reply- +1 y
I date people, not ethnicities. if I find a person attractive, I won't be put off because "well, sorry but your not my favorite race." I do find the majority of certain races more attractive than others, but that really has no effect on the big picture.
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BA!
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Holy mother of cockle shelves 14 upvotes eh. Well alright.
3.7K opinions shared on Dating topic. I voted E...I find it foolish to discriminate by race at all when it comes to dating.
As difficult as true love is to find these days, simply sticking to my own race of women exclusively (Im a black American male), means I'm eliminating over 80% of the women in my country.
EIGHTY PERCENT! 4 out of every 5 women!
That imo is too much of a self-inflicted handicap to induce on myself.102 ReplyI think western guy's thing for Asian women is because Asian women tend to have what Western women lost when they went all liberated. They aren't afraid to be female and feminine. Guys like the "girl next door" type, and Asian woman seem to be more like that. They have more of a soft nature.
There's also a little bit of "the grass is greener" going on. Different and exotic has an appeal.
And of course the key word here is "prefer". Prefer is far from excluding anyone else.70 ReplyI've had all the mentioned in the poll, honestly it's more about the individual. Don't have a preference.
Btw, Hispanic is not a race, it's an ethnicity (culture). For example, I'm racially Caucasian with Hispanic ethnicity, just like a lot of others are racially black but Hispanic nonetheless50 Reply477 opinions shared on Dating topic. Hispanic is an ethnicity not a race...
Anyway, I chosen black girls but also mixed too. However, I wouldn't close myself to not liking anything else1516 Reply- +1 y
"I guess its because I didn't choose Asian,.."--- so who do you think downvoted you Asian girls? or white guys like you? :) I'm just curious.. personally I would never ever downvote anyone who do not prefer my race, I'm obviously Asian :) and I think other Asian girls on here wouldn't care also :)). I only downvote if they say something offensive and stereotype my race.. well anyway I think you're downvoted cause you said Hispanic is not a race w/c I agree.
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sorry that came off derogatory and a bit arrogant. I appologize, I realize how I said that was idiotic. I assume it was white American guys that downvoted me but t be clear, I can't say I would not date an Asian girl or be attracted to her though. I just think its shocking that most people do not know the difference between a race, nationality or ethnicity. Education must be getting worse and worse
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I undersand that Hispanic technically isn't a race, but to me it's different to white. Since, I'm of 2 different races and Hipanic as well. I learned to call Hispanic as it's own group because of the whole minority thing, I say it in a non-offensive way. I mean it in a respectful way.
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Hispanic can be any race, you can have white Hispanics, black Hispanics even Asian Hispanics. I don't know why some people take the term "white" more literal than "black". The original Hispanics are spaniards from spain who are white, argentinians are Hispanic but usually white compared to dominicans who are also Hispanic but often black. You don't need to have powder white skin and red hair to be white... this is a primitive idea of what races are
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I know you're trying to be smart and sh*t, but the fact is when people in America say Hispanic, they mean mestizo. They don't realize that someone like Zoe Saldana or Belinda(whatever her last name is the singe/novel actress) are Hispanic.
And in Latin America, Hispanic is what they go by, not race. That's the problem with the US(versus Latin America). Down there you're just plain Hispanic, over here you're black, white, Asian, non-white Hispanic & Hispanic - +1 y
I wouldn't call it trying to be smart, I would call it stating the obvious, I guess I should say the supposed obvious... I'm stating the blatent definition and meaning behind what the word is and means and not encourage ignorence. which I'm only doing because far too many people don't know the difference. if you put an Asian couple in argentina, the moment they have a child there, the literal definition would be that child is Hispanic. most of latin America is Hispanic but brazil isn't. but at
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No, it is trying to be smart because introducing any new ideas to idiots is being educated. I didn't mean it in a bad way, I just mean most people in the western world aren't familiar with Hispanic being an ethnicity versus a race. When they think Hispanic, they think mestizo, more European looking(in terms of aesthetics).
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True, you are right but I don't see that as an excuse to encourage idiocy, its better to ammend it not advocate it. Otherwise where does that take us other than a direction where no one knows the true meaning of anything. But I am aware of the stereotypical appearence that people associate with a Hispanic person though
I voted black, partially because most if the guys who hit on me have been black. But really, I think I could date most races. I don't really like white guys though, they just all seem kind of boring, like they're all hollister models. There are exceptions to that though :)
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It's not racist at all. I would date any girl of any race but some girls are generally some races generally have a larger percentage of attractive girls or features within that race that I really love. My choice was Asian because I love their eyes and just the shame of their face. They are just overall very cute girls. But as I said, any race is fine with me.
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link the more questions that are asked by a**holes like you the more we will separate people from other people when we are all the same.
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Already did ass...blind and a moron? These questions are offensive regardless of your intentions. You taking a govt poll?
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I am against division of people. We are all the same race just environment has affected eyes and pigmentations.
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Ok, I understand. I see so many race questions that in my belief it perpetuates racism. That is just how I feel. More and more genetic work is being done and showing that we are all the same no matter what. Geography is what has changed any physical differences. We are all actually from Africa. Sorry to come off as harsh
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:) This talk has been good.
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All is well and we both took something good from this. My mother grew up in the Bronx by the way. I know the Bronx very well.
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Basketball courts, parks and Jamaican beef patties :P
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The neighbors would rob and beat my grandma every week and then the guys on the subway would sexually assault my mother...the finer parts of the Bronx lol
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She is dead now so most likely no one will be sexually harassing her lol
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Don't be honey. Life and death happens...if anything just know that all the bad stuff happens quickly in life. Do your best to mend all fences as quickly as possible and holding onto grudges (with anyone you care for) is a waste of time. I wish you happiness.
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You are welcome.
I really don't have a preference I have dated black, white and Hispanic and the only one I didn't care for too much is Hispanic but I don't think it's because of the race itself as oppose to the guys I chose. My boyfriend is white and he makes me feel like I am the only one in the world but I have dAted white guys who were super jerks and I thank God everyday that I didn't judge my boyfriend because of his skin color because I would have missed out on an awesome guy.
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Being mixed Black and American Indian, I have dated women from various races, but I usually tend to date light skinned when dating Black women, dark skinned when dating White women, morena complexioned when dating Latinas and doesn't really matter when dating Asian women. I usually tend to favor Far Eastern Asian women with Latinas coming in a close 2nd. I don't know why but I tend to prefer foreign women over American women.
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I'd date whoever I have mutual feelings and passion with...doesn't matter how he looks, doesn't matter what she do for living...as long as she loves me back for better or for ore, then I am all for her :-)
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*she* not he, damn keyboard :D :D
if I date someone I don't think his race would ever matter to me but the content of his character would..
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*thumbs up* for a mature girl :-)
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Having physical preferences makes someone immature ?
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@BehindThe Front, IF someone based his\her judgment on people based on anything other than behavior, it is immature.
IF you choose the person to date based on appearance only, that is immature.
Having a preference is natural thing, but to systimis your life based on your specific taste, that would be immature...get it?
P.S I mean no offense to anyone! - +1 y
For example, I dislike large breasts, yet I don't judge the girl based on her boob size! if I fll for her, no matter what size she is...I don't care...get it?
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I voted A because all my girlfriends so far have been white like me. But I could easily see myself with Hispanic or Black women - they can be so beautiful too! I'm not attracted to Asians though, they're too curvless and too short for my liking.
101 Reply No preference.
I like people with any kind of face or head, just the way humans are, we look different.
Not that I'm against people having preferences, I'm totally cool with that. Just don't look down on others.71 Reply- +1 y
I prefer to go on personality, I've known douche bags of all races. Associating any race with a specific personality/sterotype IS racist. People are people, and if you're only going on stereotypes/looks, then you're missing out on so many good men/ women out there anyways, and will probably pick an incompatible mate.
10 Reply Honestly, I would find myself attracted to any race no matter what. That was until I was seeing this Asian guy and he was super cute, really nice and perfect and I really liked him! When he kissed me though immediately I knew right away that I was no longer attracted to him. It was a shame because he was really great, I'm not racist or anything but I really don't think I could date a guy of another race besides white. Such a shame.
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what about a white skinned European Hispanic like me?
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Doesn't matter to me, but I lean towards Latinas.
I'm betting most of these girls are thinking about celebrities or they are lesbians. They are not interested in average, everyday white dudes compared to other guys. The girls that chose E probably have one they are more attracted to too, so we'll never know what goes where.60 Reply - Anonymous(30-35)+1 y
If you ask me my preference today I'd have to say Asian and specifically Korean or Chinese.
If you asked me last month I would have answered white-specifically Bulgarian and Russian.
The month before I was really into Hispanics and preferably the darker ones.
Its constantly changing for me but I find generally I'm attracted to all.42 Reply- Opinion Owner+1 y
hahahahah have been :D
Doesn't matter to me, as I can find something that I like in all races. I'll admit however that Indian women are absolutely gorgeous and have the ability to smite me with beauty. I don't get it, and I don't try to, I just find the south Asian look attractive. This comes from a white American male in the US.
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I don't have a preference. All races have hot babes ;-)
However...I do find a sense of camaraderie when I see other half-Asians. My current favorite model is half, so hmmm.
I think girls with certain British accents sound hot though!50 Reply - +1 y
White. Simply because I'm just naturally more attracted to them.
That is as a general rule however. I'm not saying I don't find members of each race attractive, its just it is more frequent amongst whites.40 Reply - +1 y
I'm Indian and I only date white men lol
Something about you white guys that just turns me on haha!74 Reply- +1 y
Thank you(:
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Yes because you haven't visited India I guess ;)
physically I think all races have mega hot women. Maybe personality too but I don't know about that.
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When people say Asian, they don't think of Indians, they think of Phillipino, you should have clarified this.
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yea, you should toss in Indians into the mix.
White -> eastern Europeean
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Those are who I'm more attracted to generally. But I'm open to dating any kind of girl really as long as we like each other.40 Reply- +1 y
I said E because I can think of on several occasion being attracted to and wanted to date a white guy, a black guy, an Asian guy, and a Hispanic guy. It really doesn't matter to me and it shouldn't matter either.
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It's not racist to prefer whites (or any race).
We're genetically programmed to do so.70 Reply - +1 y
I find myself primarily attracted to white women, I'm black.
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I am a good looking white guy and prefer white women. I have found some African American women very beautiful but not many want a white guy! What the HECK! Getting aced out!
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Haha I know, it's still takes me back when I see a black woman with a white guy, nothin wrong with it of course but just very rare indeed.
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Wow!
I've dated, white, Latino and black. No predisposition except my feelings and compatibility. I usually forget about skin color, but maybe that's just me.
30 Replyits more about the person than their race, although, from observation and working with the public, I can't be arsed with the loud over the top culture that some black women seem to have adopted-they remind me of children having a temper tantrum!
10 Reply576 opinions shared on Dating topic. I personally prefer human something about those other races seems unattractive
61 ReplyANY girl that doesn't have the build, wich allows them to win arm wrestling from me.
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Its not good for confidence to lose arm wrestling from a girl.
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Feels unsafe, they could do unwanted stuff to you.
Who knows what fetishes they have ? xD11 ReplyI chose E
Cant say I'm surprised with the results though. White men have the advantage, with Asian a distant 2nd51 Reply- Anonymous(30-35)+1 y
I find I enjoy women with different skin color to me, I'm Irish-white. I like the mixing of different cultures, and I love the different skin tones, in all the shades of cream and coffee.
60 Reply 2.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. I don't have a preference... There's pretty much only white people in the area I live so my options are restricted by the selection not by my choice ;)
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I prefer white guys. That doesn't mean I rule out other races, I just like the way white guys look the best.
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I don't think she meant it like that. I think she means that she has a higher preference for white guys. She wasn't trying to say that white guys are the best looking guys around.
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If you'd read the entire sentence, fefe884, you'll notice that I said that I like the way they look the best. Not that I think they are the best looking. It's just what I personally am attracted to.
I'd date any race. The only requirement is that they must have the same values as I have, and I've gotta find them attractive :)
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I picked A. Not because of racism or anything but because I like blond hair and blue eyes. Show me a different race that offers blond hair and blue eyes and I'll probably like them too.
20 Reply I would prefer an Asian guy for I don't know, I find them easier to deal with and talk to I have not dated guys belonging to other races so have no idea about them..and many people say Asian girls are petite. Well, I want to clarify most of them are not. For I am an Indian, and all I can see that they are beautiful with curves in all the right places..so this notion of all the Asian women being petite is not completely true..
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Typically don't date white guys. Not against it, but I'm not attracted to lighter skin colors. Just my preference. I generally don't care about the race of the guy, as long as we get along well.
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id date all of those excluding native amercians too many bad experiences. I swear all those girls are crazy
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right, well you haven't experienced what I have so take a walk buddy
I personally prefer white or Asian girls. I just am not into the other races as much. I guess as the skin gets darker the girl gets less attractive, but there are some exceptions like Rihanna.
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I choose black since I'm most comfortable talking to them in that way,other races I kind of have to go the friend route 1st. But Black men are my 1st choice reguardless.
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outside my race? white guy only? I wouldn't mind but would not prefer others, they would have to wow me20 Reply517 opinions shared on Dating topic. White woman are simply the most attractive, but not allways the sexiest, but I would vote A,D,C,B,E, but mixed race would be before the D,x
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I perfer black women for a few reaons, not to objectify, but they have better bodies than other women, ass tits etc, they have great humor and are nicer than white women in my opinion, i love black culture and i love how black women act and dress and talk
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i just tend to be attracted more towards white guys
40 Reply Asian. Also including Indian. Culture is what I love the most about them.
70 ReplyI have a preference for Hispanic looking/tan guys, but I chose E it could be any.
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White, I am not a raciest it is just what I find attractive.
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I defend because I have answer similar questions without defending and I get slammed. It is a raciest world we live in unfortuanately.
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African American..Its what I'm use to. But beautiful has no color...
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What if I prefer 2? I like white and Indian women (which is "Asian"...but not really lol). Everyone else I like too depending on their general hotness and personality.
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errr what is a race? ;) :D
I prefer a femal human with who there is mutual attraction and later compatibility :)10 Reply - Anonymous(30-35)+1 y
Doesn't really matter.
I don't really have like a preference. I don't control who I like.60 Reply Asian, but I've never even dated an Asian person. Honestly, race doesn't matter that much to me though.
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I would date quite a few races, I just wouldn't want a baby with anyone that isn't my own race, though I may have an exception for having a japanese kid :P
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With that mindset you should probably just stick to your own race. You are basically saying to someone "your cool and all, but not good enough to have my child" that is pretty hurtful.
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Im a perfectist, I can't help that I want my own kind to stay my own kind, buti have a lot of love for the japanese
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