I'm a nerd in college and I'm shy, and it seems like women don't like you if you don't party all the time, don't have muscles, don't get drunk every weekend, don't drive flashy cars, and you aren't a bad boy douche bag. I'm starting to see that women are just not worth it nowadays.
I read articles about why women won't date nerds. I have to say, that I think I will be alone for a very long time. I'm skinny, wear glasses, I like to read, play video games, study for my classes, and watch TV. Those are my hobbies when I am free. And if a woman doesn't like that, then she can move on. I'm not changing myself either, I don't go to gyms (I hate working out and I hate gyms), I can't go shopping for new clothes, in putting myself through college and I can't afford it. I still live at home at 23 years old. To be honest, I'd rather go unnoticed by women than have one like me for a person I'm not. I think I just need to focus on my education, and forget about women until I'm 30. Are guys like me a lost cause in the dating department?
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I've had 3 girlfriends and they all accepted me as the nerd I am. I also have glasses, a huge comic collection, I play pokemon and own a lot of videogames. I don't like sports and I'm skinny. Not too muscular. You're 23 and you're still young. Older than I am. But still young. You're not a lost cause.2
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